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    girleey Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 22, 2010, 10:34 PM
    What do you do when your boyfriend of 4years has a girl friendship that you dislike
    My boyfriend of 4 years has a girl friendship and I hate her not because of that but in general I don't like her because I know her as well but he knows I don't like her and it bothers me and he does not think about it I think that's what bothers me the most

    My boyfriend and this girl are friends and I don't like their friendship and he knows that but he still carries on
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    Aug 22, 2010, 11:00 PM

    The more you put up a fuss, the more attractive she will become to him. Back off complaining about her, or you will drive him into her arms.
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    Aug 22, 2010, 11:12 PM

    You're the girlfriend,she's the friend.

    Its OK for couples to have friends of the opposite gender,it does not mean there going to run off together!

    Go out all together and try and get to know her better,perhaps she is not so bad after all.

    At least in your boyfriends eyes he will see your trying to make an effort to get to know her,and it will also help you.
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    Aug 23, 2010, 08:28 AM

    Did she do something that makes you dislike her? Did he used to have feelings for her?
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    Aug 24, 2010, 07:59 AM

    You don't have to like his friends to like him. Just tell him to keep her away from you. Then get over yourself.
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