[Kitkat22]

hard facts.... Wouldn't hard facts.... Excuse my typing...

Don't confront him unless you have someone with you. He is your ex and you seem to have feelings for him. Don't go alone... OK?

[smcas2305]

Don't confront him unless you have someone with you. He is your ex and you seem to have feelings for him. Don't go alone...OK?

Oh, I would never recommend going to him... However, communication via email, or another form of limited communication could be beneficial here.

And do not get me wrong, I do not mean with the hopes of getting back together with this guy.. You need first and foremost to discover WHY he would stalk you to another town.

There are more important things to be concerned about here than if he is still interested in you..

[carmelkitten]

Having a boyfriend is helping me get over my ex and he knows that I still have feelings I have told him. He said that has we had not split up long he understood.
I left a 17 year partner 4 my boyfriend and yes I found it hard and I think we could have handled it better but 2 years is a long time, when it was my family and friends, when his were lovely and kind

[Kitkat22]

Oh, I would never recommend going to him... However, communication via email, or another form of limited communication could be beneficial here.

And do not get me wrong, I do not mean with the hopes of getting back together with this guy.. You need first and foremost to discover WHY he would stalk you to another town.

There are more important things to be concerned about here than if he is still interested in you..

Stalkers are not interested in the love, they are interested in the power.
Don't confront him alone and unless he calls you stay NC. It's over and you have moved on. Nevertheless if he ever wants to meet... arrange yourboyfriend to go with you in a public place.

If he text you or tries to contact you on Facebook.. block him.. He has someone else and so do you. Stay NC.

[carmelkitten]

I seen him in a pub a few months ago with his girlfriend and he knows I go to the club so he stopped going. The night he saw me I didn't go as had a feeling he would go so I went home. The next day my mate told me that he turned up there with his girlfriend which she thought was strange as he had not been 4 months, WHEN I SAID I HAD SEEN HIM she said that is why he must have gone there, so in 6 months turned up in the club and in another town when I know he was told I was there. Why is he doing this when he knows I love him and this is doing my head in when I spend all of my time staying away from him also he never went in town and now been told he is always in asda which I live across the road from and when I was with him he never went in there strange don't u think??

[talaniman]

This isn't strange at all. It's a silly immature game he is playing to show you he can have someone like you have someone to stoke your egos, at the expense of others.

They may be willing to put up with your crap, and his, but that doesn't make it right for either of you.

[Homegirl 50]

This isn't strange at all. Its a silly immature game he is playing to show you he can have someone like you have someone to stoke your egos, at the expense of others.

They may be willing to put up with your crap, and his, but that doesn't make it right for either of you.

This guy does not care about you, he's playing a game and maybe he just happened to be there and you are trying to read more in to this than there is.
The best and smartest thing you can do is move on and forget him. The situation is not going to change and it's not worth it.

[positiveparent]

It could have been coincidence, regardless of why he was there he was, people do end relationships and sometimes they do bump into one another when they're out, it doesn't mean you're being followed or if so perhaps its only in your own mind perhaps this is what you want to think it is. But its only so in your own mind. I think you're still hung up on him and would like to think he's following you.

If he is doing as you say, then ignore him or if you feel he's stalking you inform the police and have nothing whatsoever to do with him completely as of now, if your friends try talking about him change the subject.

[Kitkat22]

Ignore him and maybe he'll stop.
I'm hoping you are not liking the attention?