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  • Jul 12, 2010, 12:18 AM
    carmelkitten
    Can a ex meet someone stay away from you and still love you
    My ex has met someone else will not talk to me. Also makes sure I don't see him does he still love me?
  • Jul 12, 2010, 12:20 AM
    taaam

    If he loved you.. why would he see someone else?
  • Jul 12, 2010, 12:21 AM
    carmelkitten
    Comment on taaam's post
    He was with me all the time and we did everything together, but my family didn't like him
  • Jul 12, 2010, 12:30 AM
    carmelkitten
    Heartbroken
    How can I tell if he still loves me when he is with someone and stays away from me and will not talk
  • Jul 12, 2010, 01:19 AM
    kutocer

    There is no way to know unless he tells you. If he will not talk forget about him and move on.

    Leave him alone and life your life and don't worry about him.

    With time you will feel better and will find someone that will want to be with you because right now he doesn't want to be with you.

    Kut...
  • Jul 12, 2010, 05:07 AM
    talaniman

    I suggest you take the hint and leave him alone because he has put you behind him and moved on. That's a strong sign he doesn't love you.
  • Jul 12, 2010, 07:01 AM
    hunnypooh97
    He already with someone else and doesn't talk to you. I don't think he loves you anymore.
  • Jul 12, 2010, 12:41 PM
    Homegirl 50

    His actions and his words are saying the same thing. Listen to them.
  • Jul 12, 2010, 12:56 PM
    Devorameira

    He's your EX for a reason, just leave it that way.

    He's already shown you that he isn't in love with you anymore by moving on and not talking to you.

    Move on, heal, then find yourself someone new.
  • Jul 15, 2010, 08:16 PM
    carmelkitten
    my ex followed me 2 another town when he knew i was with my boyfriend what does that
    my ex turned up in another town when someone told him I was there with my boyfriend, he has not talked or seen me 4 around 6 months and he has a girlfriend so why was he there? I still love him do u think he loves me now or is he just doing my head in. we got on well when we were a couple and people in our town told lies about us both and went out of their way 2 split us up but we stayed together 4 two years but in the end the rumours got 2 much and we split up yet we have never had a row 2 do with us only about everyone else can u answer this and help me thank u x x x x x x
  • Jul 15, 2010, 08:21 PM
    Kitkat22

    Please do not use text or chat speak.
  • Jul 15, 2010, 08:26 PM
    carmelkitten
    Don't understand what you are saying sorry
  • Jul 15, 2010, 08:30 PM
    GV70

    Kitkat22 is saying that you have to use capital letters and punctuation marks.
  • Jul 15, 2010, 08:33 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by carmelkitten View Post
    dont understand what u r saying sorry

    Text Speak or chat speak is not allowed... u r is text speak.
  • Jul 15, 2010, 08:34 PM
    carmelkitten

    Sorry please answer the question x
  • Jul 15, 2010, 08:37 PM
    smcas2305

    There are too many variables here.. Definitely recommend you post more information.. Whether he still loves you or not, something is not quite right about following you and your current boyfriend to another town.

    Give us more of a background.
  • Jul 15, 2010, 08:38 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by carmelkitten View Post
    Sorry please answer the question x

    If you have a boyfriend and he has a girfriend he may just want to make you jealous. He also may be stalking you.
  • Jul 15, 2010, 08:46 PM
    carmelkitten

    Why would he be stalking me in another town, when I don't see him where I live 4 months ?
  • Jul 15, 2010, 08:47 PM
    ISneezeFunny

    My question is...

    Why are you with a boyfriend if you're still in love with your ex? How would you feel if you knew your boyfriend was still in love with his ex?

    Also, you two broke up because "people tried to break you guys apart" and "the rumors got too much"... while I understand the stresses of this... a sign of a strong couple is when things get tough, they support one another and look out for one another, not let outside sources interfere with the relationship
  • Jul 15, 2010, 08:49 PM
    smcas2305

    Have you tried asking him this? Undoubtedly the best thing you could do would be to communicate this.. Whether there is a future or not, it might be beneficial to you, your ex, and your current relationship to initiate communication to better understand his intention.

    If that fails, then report back here. However, wouldn't hard facts from his mouth benefit you more than speculation here?

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