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JIMCARRY · Jul 14, 2010, 05:54 AM

Hi, a week ago I met someone new. She told a little bit of her life and what type of person she is. I like the name JADE so I said it to her. She didn't took it that well, because she and JADE(girlfriend of her ex-boyfriend)dont like each other. She was very upset about because I opened old wounds. I felt awful and said that I am sorry. So it was all sorted out. So I send an sms with the words bf(best friend) and she took it as boyfriend. Another misunderstanding. So she said that she didn't wanne see me again and I am not her friend and she don't know me. I didn't take it thast well, because I really liked her. Now I'm doing all in my power to be on her (good) side. What I don't uunderstand is, why am I so worried, why is it so important to me to be her friend. I don't know why I care so much. IS IT OBSESSION. She send me an ugly sms, but I was like I MISSED YOU TOO. I tried stop thinking about her but I cant.

redhed35 · Jul 14, 2010, 06:11 AM

Leave her alone and concentrate on other things.

If you get the urge to call or contact her,call one of your friends instead.

Get busy with other things to distract you.

JIMCARRY · Jul 14, 2010, 11:48 PM

I tried to but nothing seems to work. She is always in my thoughts

redhed35 · Jul 14, 2010, 11:53 PM

If you allow the thoughts of her to take you over,then nothing is going to work.

Make a firm decision... (not a wishy washy one) but a firm decision,that every time your mind wanders to her you will change that thought to something else.

Do something else,are you busy?

She sends you ulgy text messages,she does not want you.

JIMCARRY · Jul 14, 2010, 11:59 PM

Now that I know, what should do besides trying to get her out of my mind. What if we meet again. What can I say

redhed35 · Jul 15, 2010, 12:12 AM

Say hello, be polite and move on.

Don't give her any reason to send you more hate mail.

Set a standard of how you want to be treated,and that is your bar,anyone who treats you less then that is not worth your time,because their personal bar is low,their expectation of how they wish to be treated is low.

Your thinking about someone who does not even like you.

Lust has you sucker punched into thinging about her,nothing more nothing less...

Lust fades.

JIMCARRY · Jul 15, 2010, 12:32 AM

She invited me to a concert in which she is taking part. Should I go or not