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    Jun 17, 2010, 12:23 PM
    i think my girlfriend likes someone else
    I've been dating this girl for about 3 months now. When we first got together, she moved in with me for 2 weeks. One day when I came home from work, she left me a note saying she was going back to the city for a few days and would be back soon, it's been three months now, and she's still there, has no real home there, and somehow gets into all these crazy situations. Since she has no home there, she's been house hopping through random friends and ex's and sugar daddies. She says she loves me and wants to see me. But as far as I know she intends on staying in the city, and I don't know how that's going to work, but honestly, I think she might be cheating on me with any of the people she stays with, despite the fact that she still calls me multiple times a day to check on me, and even calls me from their cell phones. And I think it's weird how she's into me, yet still hangs and stays with these ex's and sugardaddies... advice please? I'm a hopeless romantic who gets easily sidetracked by a stunning girl...
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    Jun 17, 2010, 12:44 PM

    Wait... you've been dating for 3 months now and she left for the city 3 months ago? Have you seen her since or do you just talk on the phone?

    This isn't a relationship, at all! You said she has a lot of "sugar daddy" types, so do yourself a favor and don't add yourself to that group.
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    Jun 17, 2010, 12:45 PM

    She is not your woman! Go back and re read what you wrote. Does this sound like a girl who is into you?
    Pack her things and when and if she makes it back to your place, give them to her. In the mean time go NC!
    This girl is seriously disrespecting you and you are letting her.
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    Jun 17, 2010, 12:46 PM

    Why are you calling this girl your girlfriend?

    She's not,not in any sense of the word anyway.

    End this sham of a relationship, she acting like a single girl,because she is single,I have no clue as to why she is still in contact on a daily basis,perhaps in case she needs a place to crash in your neck of the woods.

    She's staying with ex boyfriends and suger daddies,and your OK with this?

    Start no contact,please!
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    Jun 17, 2010, 01:06 PM

    Ouch! Looks like you bid her goodbye. You're only a wall she leans on,don't you see that? Maybe not even that.. Please give some good woman your attentions and don't waste it here. :)
    She's not your GIRLFRIEND!
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    Jun 17, 2010, 03:22 PM

    Even a hopeless romantic has to face the facts and fact is you are just one of many homes she has flopped at. And hearts she has used.
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    Jun 17, 2010, 03:40 PM

    i think my girlfriend likes someone else

    Ya think?
    Your place is one she can come to nest when she gets tired or has worn out her welcome elsewhere. You are her landlord and I'll bet she doesn't even pay rent.

    Get a clue dude and pack her stuff up and give it to her (when and if she comes back)
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