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    Feb 11, 2010, 09:09 PM
    My girlfriend said she likes someone else
    Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 1 month and she said she had feelings for someone else. She said she already went out with him before and she wouldn't break up with me for him, but she stopped saying she loved me and its more like we are just friends now. It started by her having a crush on me and then I found out and asked her out and now she just said she has feelings for her ex. What do I do so I don't lose her?
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    Feb 12, 2010, 06:35 AM

    How old are you? She said "I love you" after only one month of dating? I'm not sure either of you really know what love is - puppy love maybe. I don't think she was ever yours to lose to be honest.

    I am taking a wild guess you were born in 1993. That makes you a youngster. Just relax. This was never a real relationships from the start, nor should it have been.
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    Feb 12, 2010, 07:04 AM

    Nothing you can do, KC is right, this wasn't real love, young lust feels like love at times. She isn't over her ex, therefore my suggestion is you back away from this relationship and her until she sorts her own feelings ou
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    Feb 12, 2010, 07:11 AM
    I doubt you ever had her, but for sure your not going to keep her, when she has told you she wants someone else.

    Let her go.
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    Feb 12, 2010, 08:53 AM

    I use the one month time scale to know if the girl is worth having a relationship with. If we last longer than a month dating, I would defiantely consider a relationship. Any dating a girl less than a month, I would never be in a relationship with yet. Too soon, just be dating to learn more about each other and find the true connection.
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    Feb 12, 2010, 09:24 AM
    My girlfriend is shy
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    Ok my girlfriend is shy when I talk to her she can't look me in the eyes. It is like I'm doing everything. In school she is with me and she will either end up leaving or talking to her best friend completely ignoring me. I know she actually had a crush on me for a while so I asked her out. This is pissing me off what do I do?
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    Feb 12, 2010, 09:32 AM

    Maybe she isn't ready to have a boyfriend yet, give her a few more years.
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    Feb 12, 2010, 09:32 AM

    Take the hint, seeing as she would rather be with some one else. Why be mad when she has told you what the deal is, and your still hanging around?
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    Feb 12, 2010, 09:35 AM

    I thought he was talking about a new girl now lol I don't know! He started a new thread. And calling her his girlfriend
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