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    bummed23 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 14, 2009, 08:44 PM
    I think my girlfriend likes someone else
    I think my girlfriend likes someone else. She is always texting and talking about him. We have previously broken up about this. But every time I talk to her about it she denies it. What do I do?
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    Jan 14, 2009, 08:57 PM

    I would tell her to stop texting and talking about this guy because it bothers you , if she doesn't then she obviously doesn't value your relationship enough.
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    Jan 14, 2009, 10:36 PM
    Ditch her! She's waisting your time by playing games with you.
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    Jan 14, 2009, 11:42 PM
    Hi, bummed23!

    I'm just reading between the lines here, but to me, it sounds like she may like the attention that you give to her, but she isn't willing to commit to you in a relationship because she really likes someone else.

    Better to be moving on to someone who'll give you the attention and commitment that you deserve and who will also be honest with you!

    There's "lots of fish in the sea". You'll find someone else eventually.

    Thanks!
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    Jan 15, 2009, 06:30 AM

    If you broke up over this issue already, and nothing has changed, then you have a decision to make. Why did you come back any way? Did she say she would stop?
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    Jan 15, 2009, 06:46 AM

    I think you should sit down withher in a non confronting way and explain how this is hurting you and bothering you- you will know if she feels anything for this person with the way she will respond to you- make sure you talk and double make sure you LISTEN to her.

    If after this you 6th sense tells you she does like this person , then break from this relationship, as you will only get hurt
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    Jan 15, 2009, 07:52 AM

    You broke up, got back together, same issues happened? Why not ditch her for good and find someone who will respect you?
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    Jan 15, 2009, 02:18 PM

    It seems like she doesn't care nor respect your wishes so what are you going do? You can't tell her what to do and why even be with someone who doesn't have common sense to see the affect it taking on the relationship after your already broke up behind this issue?
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    Jun 30, 2010, 06:04 PM
    A look Just get drunk and say all that bull man you don't need to be with her if she doing that you need to leave her one day she will regret it.
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