[tyler12]

Can I regain custdy after my rights was termited by social service in Colorado. Both adoptive parents are willing to sighn custody over to me.

[this8384]

can i regain custdy after my rights was termited by social service in colorado. both adoptive parents are willing to sighn custody over to me.

First of all, it's not a good idea to piggyback your question onto someone else's. This thread is from 2007 and it makes it harder for us to find and answer your question when it's mixed in with someone else's. So I've requested that your question be moved to a thread of it's own.

Secondly, why were your rights terminated? Was it voluntary termination or did the courts take your rights away? How old is the child? When did you last have contact? Why do you want to regain custody? Are you able to prove that it's in the child's best interest to be placed with you again?

[tyler12]

First of all, it's not a good idea to piggyback your question onto someone else's. This thread is from 2007 and it makes it harder for us to find and answer your question when it's mixed in with someone else's. So I've requested that your question be moved to a thread of it's own.

Secondly, why were your rights terminated? Was it voluntary termination or did the courts take your rights away? How old is the child? When did you last have contact? Why do you want to regain custody? Are you able to prove that it's in the child's best interest to be placed with you again?

My son was taken by social services so no it wasn't voluntary.. my son is know 12 years old. The courts took my paretntal rights away.. he is know with me he has been for a year know... both adoptive parents are wiling to sighn over guardion ship or custody over. This all happen when he was like 3 years old. He know 12 years old...

[tyler12]

My son was taken by social services so no it wasn't voluntary.. my son is know 12 years old. The courts took my paretntal rights away.. he is know with me he has been for a year know... both adoptive parents are wiling to sighn over guardion ship or custody over. This all happen when he was like 3 years old. He know 12 years old...

[this8384]

my son was taken by social services so no it wasnt voluntary.. my son is know 12 years old. the courts took my paretntal rights away.. he is know with me he has been for a year know.... both adoptive parents are wiling to sighn over guardion ship or custody over. this all happen when he was like 3 years old. he know 12 years old....

What was the grounds for terminating your rights? While the adoptive parents may be willing to let you re-adopt your own child, the courts may not. They clearly felt you were an unfit parent nine years ago - a lot is going to have to have changed in order for them to change their mind now.

[tyler12]

My rights was termiterd for the grounds of they say that I wasn't falling through what they wanted me to.. also social services say that it was also grounds for neglect. I have changed my life around know. I have my son in theraphy once a week through his school, myself and my son go through family theraphy to improve my paretning skills with him.. my son also is on meds. And I stay on top of that aas well... I do have papers from all these people stating that my son has changed and is doing betrter know. And they thionk that it will be in his best interest to stay with me...

[tyler12]

I am not asking to re adopt my son back. What I am asking is it legall or not to regain custody or guarsionship.

[this8384]

my rights was termiterd for the grounds of they say that i wasnt falling through what they wanted me to.. also social services say that it was also grounds for neglect. i have changed my life around know. i have my son in theraphy once a week through his school, my self and my son go through family theraphy to improve my paretning skills with him.. my son also is on meds. and i stay on top of that aas well... i do have papers from all these people stating that my son has changed and is doing betrter know. and they thionk that it will be in his best interest to stay with me...

Your only option to make this legal is to go through the courts. And as I said, it's up to them to decide if it actually is in the child's best interests.

I don't know what happened exactly that was grounds for neglect, but they do not look upon that lightly. What was it that you weren't "following through" on?

I am not asking to re adopt my son back. what i am asking is it legall or not to regain custody or guarsionship.?

Again, it goes back to what the courts will allow. Clearly, you were not caring for the child properly nine years ago. I don't know how likely it is that you're going to be given a second chance.

[tyler12]

K thank you... if I can orove to the courts that I have changed is there a possibley that I will get a secound chance. Every body makes mistakes.. and yes I did make a mistake. But I have grown up more and have changed my life around 100%