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    Jan 5, 2010, 12:44 PM
    I'm 13 and in love with a 17 year old
    I'm 13 years old and he's 17, he's not like just in it for sex because I have known him for a long time and I have known his girlfriends, I know he's in love with me too but I'm confused what to do?
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    Jan 5, 2010, 01:18 PM

    I'm not quite sure what your confused about?

    if he is having sex with you that's rape... if he is caught,and I hope he is,he will go to prison.

    if this is not the case,leave him alone,be 13,hang out with your friends,plenty of time for relationships and sex.

    sex = babies,a mere 13 years ago,you were a baby..

    so,what was it you were confused about?
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    Jan 5, 2010, 01:23 PM

    13 is too young to be in a relationship. You are not mature enough to handle a serious relationship. And if you're not going to be serious in a relationship, you're going to end up breaking up and heart broken. Relationships should involve true love (commitment, trust, respect, willingness to die for another person.) Love is intense. A 13 year old has no business saying that they are in love with a 17 year old. This is not love, it is romantic feelings- and romantic feelings will always end up fading.
    Having sex at your age and at his age, is illegal. You shouldn't be having sex unless you are ready to start a family.
    My advice to you, is to learn more about yourself at this age- you've barely even hit puberty. Do your schoolwork. If you want to hang out with dudes, then get some friends that are dudes. You don't have to have sex with them, or date them to know about them.
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    Jan 5, 2010, 01:25 PM
    **shakes head** Babies having babies...

    That's what's going to happen, then she'll be a single baby momma with a baby daddy who's in jail.
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    Jan 5, 2010, 01:29 PM

    No I don't want to have sex'thats not what its on about I'm confused whether or not to start a relationship with him?
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    Jan 5, 2010, 01:30 PM
    No, don't start a relationship with him. He is 17 and should be graduating school soon. You are still 13. You are in different stages of life.
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    Jan 5, 2010, 01:33 PM

    No,don't start a relationship.. hes about to leave his teenage years and your just starting.

    It will cause too many problems and hassels and trouble,steer clear!
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    Jan 5, 2010, 01:37 PM

    No do not have a relationship with him. You are too young.
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    Jan 5, 2010, 01:41 PM

    You may believe that you are ready for a relationship, you probably believe that you are at the same level he is, but that is far from the truth. You will change tremendously before you yourself turn 17.

    While you may feel he wants a relationship with you, that is probably not the case. We have all had crushes at 13. Appreciate them for what they are - a crush. It's fun to like someone, that doesn't mean you have to be in a relationship with them. Watch 'My Girl' the movie sometime, I always thought that movie was great for schoolgirl crushes.
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