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    neil898989 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    May 17, 2008, 08:15 AM
    17 and in love with a 15 year old
    I'm a 17 year old guy
    In love with a 15 year old girl
    Been on and off for a year
    Don't know what to do, its so hard to leave her,
    She's cheated on me twice
    Tried breaking up I always end up going back to her
    Don't know if its worth the trouble, surely if its so hard to walk away from her I should stay with her.
    Have exams to worry about and I can't figure out if I will mess the up more if I'm upset because we aren't together or if we are getting together but its causing a lot of hastle
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    May 17, 2008, 08:22 AM
    She's cheated on you twice, that's a big hint. Honey, a leopard doesn't change it's spots. Do you want to be with her because you love her or because you are comfortable with her, used to having her around?

    Personally I think it's time to find someone else, someone who won't cheat on you and cause you all this heartache. There are other fish in the sea, maybe it's time to go fishing.

    Good luck.
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    May 17, 2008, 08:22 AM
    She's 15, and she's cheated on you twice?

    What does that mean, "cheated"?

    You are both way to young to be getting serious about anything but your school work right now.

    If she's "cheated" on you twice, I'd say there is a good chance that there is more "cheating" to come.

    Let her go, focus on your education, you'll find the right woman when you are a little older.
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    May 17, 2008, 08:58 AM
    Don't know if its worth the trouble,
    Being cheated on is never worth the trouble, are you crazy?
    Surely if its so hard to walk away from her I should stay with her.
    Your logic is flawed, and you should be thinking just the opposite. You need to love yourself, and stop letting her abuse you. Run for the hills.
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    May 17, 2008, 09:02 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by neil898989
    surely if its so hard to walk away from her i should stay
    Since when is the right thing to do ever the easiest?
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    May 17, 2008, 10:01 AM
    She is 15.. you must learn how to spell.. STATUTORY RAPE and study its consequences.
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    May 17, 2008, 12:19 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by lawanwadee
    She is 15.. you must learn how to spell.. STATUTORY RAPE and study its consequences.
    Don't forget she's 15 now and they've been on and off for two years!

    If this was just petting, then he, at 17 should know better and start dating girls his age. If it has gone to intimacy, then she's a slut and he is enjoying the easy access and too lazy to get to know a 'decent' girl.

    Either way, he needs to take a good hard look at his priorities and use the head on his shoulder more, concentrate on education and set higher goals for the future. Primal urges can be suppressed when thinking of more important things, like self-esteem and respect - not to mention the legality.

    Where in the heck are her parents and what part of the backwoods does she live in, no matter, this just baffles me to no end.


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