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dane987 · Nov 10, 2009, 01:57 AM

Hi I'm dane I'm crusing on a girl who's buetiful and stuff but she doesn't know I exsist

Clough · Nov 10, 2009, 02:12 AM

Hi, dane987!

What do you mean by "crusing" on her, please?

Thanks!

dane987 · Nov 10, 2009, 02:13 AM

I mean I really like her

jmjoseph · Nov 10, 2009, 02:15 AM

How old are you dane?

dane987 · Nov 10, 2009, 02:16 AM

13

Clough · Nov 10, 2009, 02:20 AM

And, how old is she, please?

Thanks!

dane987 · Nov 10, 2009, 02:20 AM

14

Clough · Nov 10, 2009, 02:28 AM

So, the two of you are in the same grade or a grade apart. Correct?

dane987 · Nov 10, 2009, 02:31 AM

A grade apart

Clough · Nov 10, 2009, 03:18 AM

I'm sorry that it took me so long to return to here, dane987! I was writing a rather long response on another thread and also had to restart my very old and slow computer.

If you would like to get to know her and be friends, are there opportunities where the two of you might be able to do things with others as a group, please?

Thanks!

dane987 · Nov 10, 2009, 03:25 AM

No we can never she knows I like her but she hatesd me

Clough · Nov 10, 2009, 03:38 AM

Then, how about seeing if you can be friends with another girl? There's lots of "fish in the sea", you know!

I've had crushes on many, many girls. There's only a small percentage of those though with whom I ever became friends or even did something together.

It's really tough being your age - so many things to learn, explore and do...

"Water seeks its' own level". That's a basic law of physics. It's very much the same way with people. People tend to seek out and be with those who are like themselves.

As you grow, learn and explore, you'll be finding those types of people who are of the same kind of mind and person that you are. The kind of mind and person that you are and become will largely be a matter of choice on your part.

Set your dreams and try to realize them, but be realistic. We can't all do everything or be anything. There's only so much time...

Do you have friends with whom you're close to in some way, please?

dane987 · Nov 10, 2009, 03:41 AM

Thank uso mutch man

Clough · Nov 10, 2009, 03:42 AM

Originally Posted by dane987

no we can never she knows i like her but she hatesd me

I remember a girl in high school... I was in band and we were all supposed to hold hands for something. I think that it was in a dance line for a show of some kind.

I was attracted to her, yet she wouldn't even hold my hand for what we were to do as a group. It really hurt me!

But, as time went on, I realized how petty that was and that there were others with whom I could be friends and grow to love and honor each other.

And, you know what? It really happened!

There is always hope! :)

dane987 · Nov 10, 2009, 03:46 AM

Thanks man your a legend

Clough · Nov 10, 2009, 03:46 AM

Originally Posted by dane987

thank uso mutch man

My pleasure and you're welcome! :)

And, you know what? You're going to make it, too!

Just be real and try your hardest, but realize that we can't be friends with everyone. It took me until I went to college and someone told me that, to realize that it was true!

I wish and hope only the best for you!

:)

Clough · Nov 10, 2009, 04:00 AM

Originally Posted by dane987

thanks man ur a legend

Hey! Please come back any time if you want to talk about something!

There's lot's of friendly "ears" here and people who've been through a lot!

Thanks!

lvhol · Dec 13, 2009, 07:05 PM

I have the same prob so I now how you feel but I can't help you sometimes evryone wish love just went smother