[valinors_sorrow]

The only reason I felt qualified to answer is I believe I have been where you are. I recognise what you are doing by having done it myself. And what I learned (and painfully too) I shared with you here. If you don't feel that is applicable, so be it. But that does not change or diminish what I experienced. I eventually found a way to be more honest with myself which resulted in a less competitive approach to love. It was then that I found who I have been with for almost two decades now -- happily married for the majority of it.

I hear you think you finally have a shot with this guy. You're happy about that and seem pretty compelled to go for it. But can you ever be secure knowing deep in your heart how you "got him" and what if someone just like you comes along and sets her sites on him? That is food for thought, like it or not.

While its okay to disagree that any of this fits your situation, please know that I believe our posting here is only with the best of intentions, especially since we do it for free. My hope for you is you learn whatever it is you need to to find love and happiness regardless if that makes my answer the "right" answer. You deserve to be happy. I never questioned that-- just the path you're taking to get there.

[blueshadow_393]

How do I unsign up for this, I want nothing to do with you people anymore, I can deal with my own problems then. I just want it to stop sending me emails and such.

[talaniman]

At the bottom of the e-mail is an unsubscibe link. Good luck!

[JoeCanada76]

Crying and crying and a boo hoo, because you got the truth. I am starting to get annoyed at people who ask questions and when they get a truthful honest answer. They run crying because they thought that they would get a pat in the back and say everything is good.

Not that case here.

Joe

[Skell]

Crying and crying and a boo hoo, because you got the truth. I am starting to get annoyed at people who ask questions and when they get a truthful honest answer. They run crying because they thought that they would get a pat in the back and say everything is good.

Not that case here.

Joe

Yeah I get sick of it too.

But every now and then it is satisfying when that cryer after their initial sob, actually admits we are on to something and comes around and listens.

Not the case her though!

You can only try Joe and perhaps someone else reading this thread may get something out of it even if the OP didn't!

[talaniman]

Unfortunately you can't help everyone.

You can only try Joe and perhaps someone else reading this thread may get something out of it even if the OP didn't!

I hope so!

[blueshadow_393]

HAHAHA, does anyone remember me, well for those of you who do, yes the whole thing did work out he liked me the whole time, and I'm just wondering if anyone has any fun date ideas, preferably cheap ones, ones you can do inside, and ones that are interesting and unique. Let me know, oh and questions are fine.
-becca

[blueshadow_393]

Oh for goodness sake is no one creative?