[randyvahn]

I met an amzing woman and in the beginning she was a hard woman to break for she had a guard up..

Within a month she told me I seen things in her that no one has ever seen,not even her family.. and she fell in love with me.

I am living with my EX and she was aware of this near the end for I didn't tell her right away,I told her I was moving out as soon as I saved enough money.
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The second month was spent apart for she was in australia,upon her return I was still in my same situation,so things became tense for I was pushing her away by not answering phone calls or seeing her because I knew she was at her ropes end every time I would have to leave she became more distant..

She finally cracked and broke up with me..
I asked her why she wouldn't let me move in with her or lend me the funds to get my own place, she said because I had to do it for me and that would be an easy way out to live with her... So if this was the reason why we were having so many problems she had the power to end it and dindt do to her logical way of thinking..

She met with me the other day we talked and I expressed how I wanted to be with her and I just needed time to save and asked her to bare with me.. her answere is the same and that being she can't be with me when I live there even though its over with my ex..
Today ui sent flowers and 3 cards, one being a forgive me card,second being an I love you and third being a valentines day promise.. she said it was sweet but it changed nothing..
So I asked to meet and asked for a eternity braclett back she met me and again I pored my soul out and told her to for once think with her heart and not with logic...
Before I left I asked her if she had anything to say, she shook her head no, I said are you sure and she said yes, what does that mean? I then pried again she then said take care and I will miss you and drove away...

Im sitting wondering if a woman with such a logical way of thinking will in time remember all the beautiful emails and all the good times we had and the feelings I gave her that no other has before me, will see the light and want to be with me, or has she made her mind up and that's that...

Should I let things be in fates hands now.. will I hope she's human and her heart will take over... im so confused..
Any help would be appreciated..
Randy

[HellHound82]

I know you don't want to hear this but the only way you are going to get her back is to move out on your own. Even if it is a small place it shows that you are trying and that's what she needs to see

[bmc_imr4308]

True that HellHound. If you move out on your own it will show her you're trying. But in the meantime let her come to you, don't try and pry her into something she's not ready for.