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    Nov 8, 2006, 05:49 AM
    Agrh! Tal I must spread it or you would have got some.

    Marjo, I do understand what your saying and I'm saying that your wrong. Go back and reread my original post on this subject. In fact go reread everbody's original posts. The reason your husband doesn't open up and share things with you is not because of him, it's because of you. Look at the reaction your giving him for doing nothing wrong A QUARTER OF A CENTURY ago. I'd think most women would be happy to have a man that opens up and shares with them and you seem to have one and you actually shut him down before he can.

    Just a question here and I may totally be off base so don't take this to heart but why are you so jealous? Are you on the up and up? Have you always been faithful?

    Either way you need professional counceling. We get what's going on here and your wrong. I'm sorry that's probably not the answer you want, but you asked and we are just being honest. Were not doing it out of spite but rather so that you'll hopefully start looking inward and get some help.
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    Nov 8, 2006, 05:58 AM
    WOW OK... this happened 25 years ago.
    Its an eposide from the past that's coming to haunt you in the present day.. why? Why is that happening?
    I tell you why, because YOU are allowing it to.
    Get a hold of yourself, you if REALLY love your husband, forget it PLEASE for your own sake, you are driving yourself mad and for what?? Think about it...

    Are you ready to throw a life time with this man for something that happened so long ago.. come on!!

    If I was in your shoes, I honestly would have probably got upset about it, but not taken it to this extreme.. I would learn to deal with it as it was soooo long ago and probably just pass on a joke about it!! That way you can laugh about it together as a couple.

    Laughing is the best teraphy ever!

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