[meggie_twin]

My exboyfriend and I have gotten into huge fights for the last few weeks. He decided I need time alone and so does he to think. We will not be getting back togther. He said in three weeks we could start over. Does he mean it, will he call or am I fooling myself? I miss him and I know the reasons we broke up had to do with the long distance but I became very jealous and hurt and told him so. Before I did he liked when I called etc just as long as we didn't talk about the relastionship. Need guys opnion

[hanmimi]

I've been somewhere along the lines with your situation. I've kept a long distance relationship for 2 years and had finally met the girl, though she was sweet and we had out precious moments, she stopped because she couldn't bare not seeing me anymore. Anyway, your ex boyfriend did say that in three weeks you guys could start over. He probably just needs time for his own needs and sometimes a long distant relationship doesn't work out. Though he seemed a little uncomfortable with talking about the relationship with you it seems it isn't something that he wants. But I'm not exactly sure of that. I think that you should just do what he said and contemplate things over, and when those three weeks are up or he contacts you any sooner, take in what he has to say and decide for yourself if this is what you want or not. I'm in a bad position to be answering your question because I am in a fix myself. Good luck and hope things get better for you two.

[helpmepleaseee]

I believe when he told you he will call you in three weeks, he wasn't necessarily planning on ANYTHING. I think that he is going to see how it feels to be without you(maybe go on a date with someone else) and if he wants to start back he will and if not then he won't. If he decides he doesn't want to try again, you will both be better off.