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bumbalina · Aug 15, 2009, 06:08 AM

Hi all. I'm new to this... just ater a bit of friendly advice as my head is in pieces...
I've known this bloke (Virgo) on and off for 2 years. There's has always been a massive attraction but we have both always had partners. Anyway, a couple of weeks ago we bumped into other each and discovered we were both newly single. We were both really pleased and decided to go out. We then spent the next 7 days together. It was VERY full on from both sides. He met my parents and I was due to meet his this weekend. Then out of the blue he suddenly says sorry, can't do this, I need more time on my own. I know we only saw each other for a short time but the time we were together was amazing. I am absolutely devastated and don't know how to proceed. He answered one text saying he was sorry he had hurt me but hasn't answered the others I sent. Any advice?

tickle · Aug 15, 2009, 06:34 AM

Wow, that had to be way too fast. Full on VERY MUCH SO. I guess after a while his head got together and considered what he was doing was entirely too quick for him and I tend to think he was right in calling it off after just two weeks of intensity.

A lot was compressed into those two weeks... meeting parents... what else.

Consider yourself lucky, I guess, the dust has settled and maybe a good thing he thought better of it.

I would suggest moving on.

Tick

bumbalina · Aug 15, 2009, 06:43 AM

Thanks tick, I guess you are right. Just having waited so long to have a chance together I think we both went a bit crazy. I miss him like mad but I'll get over it eventually. Shame though, it felt SO right

N0help4u · Aug 15, 2009, 06:49 AM

I just replied to another similar post by you but the post entire post somehow disappeared. I had an answer there but I don't see the information that you had on there here. I remember you said you are sagatarius but I don't remember the rest of it.

bumbalina · Aug 15, 2009, 06:54 AM

Sorry, don't understand? Only posted one post? I'm new to all this so perhaps I did it wrong?

N0help4u · Aug 15, 2009, 06:59 AM

Then somebody else did a similar post to yours within the past two days and said they were sagitarius and their boyfriend was virgo.

artlady · Aug 15, 2009, 07:05 AM

Too much too soon for him.
Sounds like a case of cold feet or perhaps he got back with his ex.
Chalk it up to a good week and learn from the experience.
Next time,proceed with caution.

Mikis · Aug 26, 2009, 04:50 AM

Hey there!
I am a Virgo. I can say when they fall in love, they fall hard. Virgos are very sensitive when it comes to relationship. If a relationship breaks it scars him for life. They are not Don Juans and cannot move from girl to girl. There is usually only one that fits and if it goes wrong there is a chance that the Virgo will destroy the bridges of love. If he says he needs time that means he needs time. Virgos cherish loyalty, devotion and intellect. We simply hate crybabies and if you try to push him or whine about how lonely you feel and how you can't live without him he will definitely turn you down. Virgos think and analyze excessively which may lead to stress and apathy. My advice would be: play smart. If he turned you down that doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't like you. That means he is confused and needs to reassemble and redirect himself. Be kind, understanding and close to him and make him feel that you are always there for him. If you really want him you will have to be patient and willing to wait. Give him space and time and see how it turns out.
But be warned! If a Virgo doesn't love you that means he never will no matter what you do. So slow down and give him time. If you see that he is getting colder and doesn't like your company you shoud move on.
Patience and best of luck to you!