Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    BleedingLuv92's Avatar
    BleedingLuv92 Posts: 32, Reputation: 1
    Junior Member
     
    #1

    Aug 10, 2009, 01:56 PM
    Can I marry at seventeen if pregnant?
    If I say I am pregnant, will I legally be allowed to marry my eighteen year-old boyfriend without parental consent? Will I need proof of the pregnancy?
    N0help4u's Avatar
    N0help4u Posts: 19,823, Reputation: 2035
    Uber Member
     
    #2

    Aug 10, 2009, 01:58 PM

    I do believe you would need to prove you are pregnant if your state does allow it.
    What state are you in?
    BleedingLuv92's Avatar
    BleedingLuv92 Posts: 32, Reputation: 1
    Junior Member
     
    #3

    Aug 10, 2009, 02:00 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    I do believe you would need to prove you are pregnant if your state does allow it.
    What state atre you in?
    I live in Georgia
    N0help4u's Avatar
    N0help4u Posts: 19,823, Reputation: 2035
    Uber Member
     
    #4

    Aug 10, 2009, 02:05 PM

    This is what I found

    Georgia: If you are 16 or 17 years old, you may apply if accompanied by both parents who have given written consent. If the bride is pregnant, no parental consent is required if you submit a statement from a licensed physician certifying that the bride is pregnant.
    stevetcg's Avatar
    stevetcg Posts: 3,693, Reputation: 353
    Ultra Member
     
    #5

    Aug 10, 2009, 04:07 PM

    If you SAY you are pregnant and are not, you get to go to jail.

    ARE you pregnant?
    stinawords's Avatar
    stinawords Posts: 2,071, Reputation: 150
    Ultra Member
     
    #6

    Aug 10, 2009, 07:48 PM

    You can not just say you are pregnant and expect anything to happen. You will have to have a note from your doctor stating that you are pregnant.
    BleedingLuv92's Avatar
    BleedingLuv92 Posts: 32, Reputation: 1
    Junior Member
     
    #7

    Aug 11, 2009, 12:22 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by stevetcg View Post
    If you SAY you are pregnant and are not, you get to go to jail.

    ARE you pregnant?
    I do not know for sure, but it is pretty likely.
    If I am pregnant, we will most liekly end up aborting the pregnancy anyway... I am wondering would I still be able to marry first?
    stevetcg's Avatar
    stevetcg Posts: 3,693, Reputation: 353
    Ultra Member
     
    #8

    Aug 11, 2009, 12:28 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by BleedingLuv92 View Post
    I do not know for sure, but it is pretty likely.
    If I am pregnant, we will most liekly end up aborting the pregnancy anyway...I am wondering would I still be able to marry first?
    Its legally and morally shady ground. There is no good reason to get married at 17. There is hardly a good reason to get married at 27... and please spare me the "in love" reason. You can be in love and not get married. :)
    ChihuahuaMomma's Avatar
    ChihuahuaMomma Posts: 7,378, Reputation: 608
    Vision Expert
     
    #9

    Aug 11, 2009, 12:28 PM

    If you are having an abortion why get married before you are 18?
    N0help4u's Avatar
    N0help4u Posts: 19,823, Reputation: 2035
    Uber Member
     
    #10

    Aug 11, 2009, 12:29 PM

    That would be fraud to use the pregnancy to get married knowing you may likely get an abortion.
    You are 17 why don't you just plan to get married for your 18th birthday?
    ChihuahuaMomma's Avatar
    ChihuahuaMomma Posts: 7,378, Reputation: 608
    Vision Expert
     
    #11

    Aug 11, 2009, 12:32 PM

    Or 25th? I know four people that got married on their 18th birthdays or soon after, every one is divorced, and two are remarried.
    stinawords's Avatar
    stinawords Posts: 2,071, Reputation: 150
    Ultra Member
     
    #12

    Aug 11, 2009, 08:41 PM

    I agree there really isn't a reason to get married so young especially if you don't want a child anyway. Besides that... it takes time to get a marriage licese and get the marriage done so by the time you got into the doctor to get the authorized note and got around to the actual marriage it would most likely be too late for a legal abortion anyway.
    N0help4u's Avatar
    N0help4u Posts: 19,823, Reputation: 2035
    Uber Member
     
    #13

    Aug 11, 2009, 08:52 PM

    To get married in Georgia

    2 forms of ID
    Premarital education program
    No waiting period
    No doctors appt/blood test
    Cost approximately $65.00 more if no premarital ed
    BleedingLuv92's Avatar
    BleedingLuv92 Posts: 32, Reputation: 1
    Junior Member
     
    #14

    Aug 18, 2009, 08:57 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    That would be fraud to use the pregnancy to get married knowing you may likely get an abortion.
    You are 17 why don't you just plan to get married for your 18th birthday?
    I would rather do it as soon as possible considering I currently live with my mother who has anger/control issues, and pretty much wants to make my life a living hell until the day I move out.
    N0help4u's Avatar
    N0help4u Posts: 19,823, Reputation: 2035
    Uber Member
     
    #15

    Aug 18, 2009, 09:01 AM

    Well first you need to find out if you are pregnant. By now you should have found out one way or another.

    I do not suggest going out and purposely getting pregnant because you would be just getting into another set of problems.

    Also by the time you go through all the legal stuff to get emancipated could end up not getting finalized until you are 18 anyway.
    stinawords's Avatar
    stinawords Posts: 2,071, Reputation: 150
    Ultra Member
     
    #16

    Aug 18, 2009, 10:35 AM

    Did you just turn 17 or are you half way to 18? I ask becaues nohelp is right. By the time you go through all of the legal stuff to be emancipated you may already be 18 and you would have wasted the time and money. So, are you pregnant or not you have had time to find out by now.
    ChihuahuaMomma's Avatar
    ChihuahuaMomma Posts: 7,378, Reputation: 608
    Vision Expert
     
    #17

    Aug 18, 2009, 11:43 AM

    It took me 2 1/2 half years to get emancipated. It is worth it if you have a parent that isn't a parent. But it's not worth it if you just have strict parents and hate their rules, and honestly that's what this sounds like. You are a child, therefore you are your parent's responsibility. Getting pregnant and/or married will not make you an adult. It will make you tired, stressed, and ruin the remaining childhood you have. Sorry to be so blunt, but this strikes me as a really bad idea.

Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions

 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

Why won't he marry me? He wanted to marry her! [ 9 Answers ]

It's as simple as that - why won't he marry me? He wanted to marry the last girl he was with, but she ended their engagement after they were together for 7 years. He said it was mutual.. . But regardless. Now he's with me, and besides the fact that I think I'm perfectly worthy as an individual, I'm...

I'm seventeen and my boyfriend is fourteen is it wrong? [ 3 Answers ]

Hello, My Name is Nikki I'm 17 years old. And I have a very serious question for everyone. My future very much depends on it. Im 17 as I said and I'm dating this really amazing guy. I have had many boyfriends and none has made me feel the way he does. He impresses me in every aspect and there...

6 years and counting, to marry or not to marry [ 7 Answers ]

I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years, is it time to get married?

Pregnant, if I marry, will my husband be father? [ 2 Answers ]

If I were to get married while I am pregnant, would my husband be considered the child's father? Even if he is not the genetical father of baby? And could this be contested by the father?

Seventeen year old [ 7 Answers ]

Why does my 17 yr old son seem to hate me. We used to do everything together. He treats me horrible if his friends are around.


View more questions Search