[hopeless91]

Okay, this is going to be a very long winded message. I have never been in a relationship, and am always rejected when attempting one. I am VERY clingy, and even when girls call me their best friend I always feel I end up being hurt. For example, there was this one girl I sort of had feelings for, but she always caled me her best friend, because I always have been pretty caring. Problem is, I've ony asked her for a favour twice - I asked her to talk to me in a time of crisis. Instead, she would avoid it and blow me off for some of her other friends. Eventually I felt really used and taken advantage of, so I yelled at her and denounced our firendsihp. She said I make a big deal out of everything and I'm too damn clingy.

Problem is, this is the third time it's happened with a girl in a year.

I guess I am too clingy. I also have develop expectations which I shouldn't. I also overanalyze and my whole world revolves aroudn the girl even fi its small feelings. And of course, I've never been in a relationship.

Please help me out here..

[I wish]

Recognizing these attributes is a good first step. You just have to keep working on these aspects of your life.

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