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rhart1023 · Jul 24, 2009, 04:23 PM

Me and my girl friend broke up like 5 months ago and all I can do was think of and now she is kind of with someone else. Last week we hung out all week and had a great time then one day she went home and she acted like we never chilled and she's hang out with a pos and ik that she still loves me what can I do pleace help me

liz28 · Jul 24, 2009, 04:34 PM

First, you stop hanging around her and cut all ties with her. I mean after all she is your ex and an ex for a reason, right?

You're the cause for your own cunfusion so end the confusion by getting her out of your life for good.

Time to let go and move on or stay stuck--your choice.

Hazeltine · Jul 24, 2009, 07:05 PM

If you are unable to be simply friends with her, I agree cut all ties.

If she knows you feel like this and still did this, she is someone you do not want in your life.

Get a hobby, meet new people whatever it takes to drown out all that you are thinking of.

Torrid13 · Jul 24, 2009, 07:21 PM

If she still was interested in dating you, I would think that you would still be together.

You know what you're doing every time you "chill" together? You're picking at a wound that hasn't come close to healing and it just keeps bleeding and bleeding.

I agree with Liz; cut all ties and find other people to chill with. Your heart and sanity will thank you.

dreamingartist · Jul 24, 2009, 07:58 PM

Originally Posted by rhart1023

me and my girl friend broke up like 5 months ago and all i can do was think of and now she is kinda with someone else.

You have to go No Contact so that it doesn't matter who she is with, you Won't know... how can you know she is dating a new guy if you aren't talking to or thinking about her.

Originally Posted by rhart1023

last week we hung out all week and had a great time then one day she went home and she acted like we never chilled and shes hang out with a pos and ik that she still loves me wht can i do pleace help me

Ok

1) why is she hanging out with you and dating someone else. If you were dating her wouldn't that make you feel like crap knowing your GF is hanging out with a previous X or another guy.. its not like she told her current BF that she's hanging with you, she played it off as if you don't exist. That's a low and not someone who cares about you.

2) you said you know she still loves you? Well what is your definition of love? Is it someone who lies to you and doesn't tell you the truth? Or is it someone who hangs out with you then dates another guy? Don't confuse love with what is really happening. Learn to realize this girl does not have as much integrity that you thought.

Its natural to want to revalidate your esteem by having her hang with you and essentially pick you over him (for the 2 hours you hung out). But then she went back to him and then lied where she was...