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myanonymousacc · Jun 28, 2009, 05:37 PM

There's a girl. I like her. I don't think she likes me. I'm not in her league,(aka I don't think I can get her) in my mind. Don't know what to do. Afraid to tlk to her. Very upset about the situation. Care for her alo. She doesn't know. Sorry about sentence structure

jmjoseph · Jun 28, 2009, 05:42 PM

It's been proven time and time again, that no one is out of someone else's "league". Keep positive and just be yourself. Good luck buddy.

chuff · Jun 28, 2009, 05:59 PM

Originally Posted by myanonymousacc

im not in her league,

How do you know. If this is your attitude going in, then you are already going to fail. If you did ask her out, and she said no that's her problem. Have you ever thought about the fact she's not perfect, she bleeds like you and I. She has weakness and sensitivities like the rest of us. Rule number 1 that you need to change right now is not to ever put a woman on a pedestal. Rule number 2 is remain in control at all times. She's got you not in control and you haven't talked o her yet. In that regard you are helping her turn you down. You are doing it for her.

If you want any girl you have to start with yourself first. You have to build your confidence up. You have to know that you have a lot to offer a girl and you also have to know that she is lucky to be with you, not you are lucky to have her. It doesn't work that way. Do you think Howard Stern is getting women because he looks good or do you think they like him because he's funny, in control, knows what he wants, and doesn't put any one of them on a pedestal. I'm not saying you should start taking the crude things about Howard Stern but using him as an example that you can see he doesn't say, "she's out of my league." He doesn't care, and women line for him. Because at the end of the day he's confident that he'll be okay with the result even if is does not go his way that moment.

Willrodg · Jun 28, 2009, 11:19 PM

Dude listen. I've dated one of the most popular girls in my school and I was just myself. I talked with her on occasion and texted her. And after a while we started going to movies and dinner. Then we dated and went to prom haha. Just be yourself, but don't run up to her and spill your guts for her because she will think you're a freak. Be polite and talk to her. Work on her as if she was a cookie. Take it slow and as you go along take longer steps like asking if she wants to do something. Soon your cookie will be gone and she might have feelings for you. Good luck

-Will