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    redcruiser01 Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 5, 2009, 08:22 AM
    Cheating&liking someone.
    Well... about 3 months ago I cheated on my boyfrend with this other guy! I broke up with my boyfrend but ever since he has wanted me backk! But I don't want to go backk... I fucckingg like the guy I cheated on my boyfrend with and ever since we hooked up we've been going out and hooking up! That's all he wants but I really likee him! Arghhh I duno what to do ? Shuld I juss forget about him and juss be frenddss? Orr whatttttt? :confused::confused:
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    Jun 5, 2009, 08:54 AM

    Might want to edit this for language purposes.
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    Jun 5, 2009, 09:05 AM

    So basically you like being used because of your fondness towards this guy?

    Continue what your doing and don't get back with your ex so he can get tangle up in your madness.
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    Jun 5, 2009, 09:20 AM

    Well if you're already hooking up with this other guy, that's all it'll ever be. He's probably not as attached to you as you are to him. Otherwise, he'd let you know. After all, you cheated to be with him. What does that say about you?

    So apparently your ex doesn't know the real reason that you broke up with him? Tell him that you're a No-good _____ (fill in whatever you want to call yourself) and that you cheated on him. Let him be so that he can find someone that will treat him better than you did.
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    Jun 5, 2009, 09:25 AM

    I guarantee when she broke up with her ex she made it seem as if it was his fault for her breaking up with him. However, karma will get her.
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    Jun 5, 2009, 09:37 AM

    Some people don't even deserve to be in any kind of relationship.
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    Jun 5, 2009, 09:44 AM

    Here is what you can do:

    1. Stop acting like a sl*t

    2. Type like a mature person

    Doing those two things alone will make you a much happier and better person.
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    Jun 5, 2009, 09:57 AM

    How old are you? I thinking you're a teen by your other thread.

    If your addicted to alcohol and drinking seek help and tell your parents because there are a lot of great support groups out there.

    Also, if you think you might be suffering from depression then again seek help to help you sort out your problems. It will only make you a better person.
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    Jun 5, 2009, 10:28 AM

    You cheat, you drink, you smoke and it's all illegal at your age. You need to get counseling because you are heading down a dangerous one way street
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    Jun 5, 2009, 10:30 AM
    I can't even bring myself to comment on this. It seems very immature and foolish. You cheated on your boyfriend for someone who basically only wants sex from you. If your happy just hooking up then so be it and leave your ex out of it. You have already hurt him so let him move on. If he doesn't know you cheated he will find out. Trust me they always find out.
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    Jun 5, 2009, 11:17 AM

    Guy 1 you don't have enough feelings for
    Guy 2 you are allowing him to use you or you are using him or you are using each other

    You don't need a guy in your life right now...
    At least not with those choices.
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    Jun 5, 2009, 11:40 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by redcruiser01 View Post
    well... about 3 months ago i cheated on my boyfrend with this other guy! i broke up with my boyfrend but ever since he has wanted me backk!
    When you broke up with him, did you telling him you were whoring around behind his back for did you give him some lame excuse?

    Quote Originally Posted by redcruiser01 View Post
    but i dnt wana go backk... i fucckingg like the guy i cheated on my boyfrend with nd ever since we hooked up weve been going out nd hooking up! thats all he wants but i really likee him! arghhh i duno what to do ? shuld i juss forget about him nd juss be frenddss? orr whatttttt? :confused::confused:
    Do you know how to spell?

    So if I read what you juss (don't ask me, that's how she spelled it) said correctly, you used your boyfriend, then dumped him because you can't keep your legs closed and now are being used for sex. I'm curious, as someone who just recently purchased several unsuccessful banks, insurance companies and car company that doesn't make a dime, will I also get the pleasure of being robbed more to feed your kid if you get pregnant from doing this because you can't get a job because she can't spell? Maybe right now isn't the time the time to be opening your legs for anybody and instead concentrating on improving yourself worth so cheating and being used isn't something that happens in your life.
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    Jun 5, 2009, 12:35 PM
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    Leave the ex alone, as you have to many problems to deal with, and need some help. I hope you get it because as Rome has said, YOU NEED IT BADLY. You would be a lousy friend right now, and I'm sure he doesn't deserve it.
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    Jun 6, 2009, 07:28 AM

    Your other post was deleted for chat/text speak. Your replies, and questions can be posted here, not as a new question.
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