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BlackVY · May 26, 2009, 10:24 PM

She said you are controlling? Lol! What a joke.

Seriously, if she is being like this, you don't need her. She is trying to manipulate you. Seriously, don't talk to her and leave her alone.

Steve1010 · May 26, 2009, 10:26 PM

Wow I'm broken what do I do

BlackVY · May 26, 2009, 10:28 PM

Nothing... she seems beyond reasoning... there is nothing you can do. Tell me honestly, do you need someone like this in your life. Do you want to feel this way forever?

Steve1010 · May 26, 2009, 10:30 PM

No I don't. But this is really hurting me so bad. I don't know how ill recover

BlackVY · May 26, 2009, 10:36 PM

Exactly... you know you don't want this forever. You know you deserve better, and she is not treating you right.

Yes it will hurt, but trust me, trust all of us, you will recover and be better than before. You will find a nice girl who treats you right and you will look back on this decision you made and be thankful.

Be strong. You will get through this. This girl is not worth it. You don't need her.

Check out the sticky thread in the forum about how to recover, take your mind off things. The most important thing is you work on yourself, spend time one your own and with friends. You will be better than ever in time.

Steve1010 · May 26, 2009, 10:42 PM

She said if I don't send her the texts she won't talk to me anymore

BlackVY · May 26, 2009, 10:47 PM

Originally Posted by Steve1010

she said if i dont send her the texts she wont talk to me anymore

Good, so don't send her texts... you don't need to associate or contact her anymore.

Seriously man, its time to do the right thing. Do not contact her.

The rule is NO CONTACT and that means NO CONTACT, no matter what. You have to do it. It's the only way you will really recover.

Steve1010 · May 26, 2009, 10:49 PM

Going to bed. Be on tommrow? Need support

BlackVY · May 26, 2009, 10:54 PM

Originally Posted by Steve1010

goin to bed. be on tommrow? need support

Yup, I'll be here, and lots of others too... we'll help u through this... Take care, Peace

Romefalls19 · May 27, 2009, 05:48 AM

OMFG! Dude! Re-read your posts from last night, until further notice I hearby take your man card. You are letting this woman control every action you do. Today I will give you a list of things I want for you to do. You respond by the end of the day with which ones you've done

1. Change your phone number
2. Delete her number out of your phone
3. Put her e-mail as SPAM(just incase)
4. Delete her Facebook or myspace or both
5. Talk to at least 3 new people, face to face

wesyeds · May 27, 2009, 06:38 AM

But at least she had her man with her.. for whole life

Ren6 · May 27, 2009, 06:39 AM

... and of course, divorce was out of the question! Even if you hated each other.

I suggest that you read "How To Survive The Loss Of A Love", by McWilliams, Bloomfield, and Cosgrove. It's kind of corny in places, but it got me through the worst break-up of my life! It's cheap, too.

Ren6 · May 27, 2009, 07:38 AM

Yes... take the advice we were giving Steve... no more contact! This is how you will heal yourself from the hurting. Talk to you later... :)

Steve1010 · May 27, 2009, 11:26 AM

Now she's saying she wants to be friends. Then said I'm a possesive creep, and she doesn't even like to have sex with me or kiss me and I'm gross?

Romefalls19 · May 27, 2009, 11:31 AM

Obviously you are going to continue standing behind the horse, so accept being kicked but stop complaining about it. When you are ready to stop being kicked, I'll start with the advice again.

Steve1010 · May 27, 2009, 11:33 AM

No I'm done, I'm to hurt

Alty · May 27, 2009, 11:34 AM

Originally Posted by Romefalls19

Obviously you are going to continue standing behind the horse, so accept being kicked but stop complaining about it. When you are ready to stop being kicked, I'll start with the advice again.

At this point I'm kicking myself. :(

Steve, you aren't ready to hear what we have to say, you just want to whine and complain.

Personally, I have better things to do then try to help someone that doesn't want help.

Good luck to you. Have fun being a punching bag.

Romefalls19 · May 27, 2009, 11:35 AM

Don't be hurt, be angry. When people get hurt they cry about their condition. But when people get angry, they bring about change.

Now, delete everything! Change your phone number. Trust me it will be weird at first, but after a few days, with a unclouded mind you will feel free

Alty · May 27, 2009, 11:35 AM

Originally Posted by Steve1010

no im done, im to hurt

Ya right.

You're done, until the next text. :rolleyes:

Steve1010 · May 27, 2009, 11:42 AM

No she said very hurtful things, she said outragus things. I'm crushed. I cnt believe she said what she said. Then she said LEAVE ME ALONE! On her Facebook when it said our relationship ended. She wrote on it saying..

"he loves me!! hahahaha