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    #221

    May 25, 2009, 10:29 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Steve1010 View Post
    god its still bothering me when she said thought u were different. clearly not
    And I'm lmao... it's sooooooooooo lame!!
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    #222

    May 25, 2009, 10:29 PM
    So what do I expect tomorrow? Like what do u think she will say?
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    #223

    May 25, 2009, 10:30 PM
    No.. I just don't want to lose her by not talking to her
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    #224

    May 25, 2009, 10:30 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Steve1010 View Post
    so what do i expect tommorrow? like what do u think she will say?
    Are you in the Central Time Zone?
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    #225

    May 25, 2009, 10:31 PM
    do u think she is saying IM DONE, to get me to answer? Lol she said she was done like 3 hours ago?> then randomly texted me saying " hey boy" like >?
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    #226

    May 25, 2009, 10:31 PM
    Yes I am, I have to get up at 630
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    #227

    May 25, 2009, 10:32 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Steve1010 View Post
    do u think she is saying IM DONE, to get me to answer?? lol she said she was done like 3 hours ago?> then randomly texted me saying " hey boy" like >?
    Like my grandfather would say, she is full of applesauce.
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    #228

    May 25, 2009, 10:34 PM

    So no matter how long it takes for me to answer do u think she truly needs me and wants to be w me? And its driving her crazy I'm not answering
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    #229

    May 25, 2009, 10:35 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Steve1010 View Post
    so no matter how long it takes for me to answer do u think she truly needs me and wants to be w me? and its driving her crazy im not answering
    Yes to all questions. And if you screw this up, you will lose her.
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    #230

    May 25, 2009, 10:36 PM

    How can I screw up?
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    #231

    May 25, 2009, 10:36 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Steve1010 View Post
    so no matter how long it takes for me to answer do u think she truly needs me and wants to be w me? and its driving her crazy im not answering
    Its driving you crazy not answering, and its driving her crazy now getting a reply. Lol!

    If she really loves you and needs you, you will know from what you are doing now.

    She needs to sort herself out...
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    #232

    May 25, 2009, 10:38 PM

    After 9 tomorrow night, whatever she says, listen (or read) and don't answer right away. Think about it. Is she being respectful to you or not. Is she being loving or not. Answer nicely if she is, and, if she isn't, tell her you won't reply until she is respectful and loving.
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    #233

    May 25, 2009, 10:39 PM

    But what does it matter answering at noon compared to 9 at night?
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    #234

    May 25, 2009, 10:39 PM
    Then give very simple and short answers.
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    #235

    May 25, 2009, 10:40 PM
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    but what does it matter answering at noon compared to 9 at night?
    Time... she needs time... and so do you...
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    #236

    May 25, 2009, 10:40 PM

    If I answer short answers. She will be like WHY Didn't U ANSWER LAST NIGHT WHY! OMG WHY UR SUCH A JERK
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    #237

    May 25, 2009, 10:41 PM
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    if i answer short answers. she will be like WHY DIDNT U ANSWER LAST NIGHT WHY! OMG WHY UR SUCH A JERK
    Then say Goodbye and stop communication.
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    #238

    May 25, 2009, 10:42 PM
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    Then say Goodbye and stop communication.
    Exactly... if she doesn't respect you and treat you well, then you don't to her... she has to learn...
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    #239

    May 25, 2009, 10:43 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by BlackVY View Post
    Exactly... if she doesn't respect you and treat you well, then you don't to her... she has to learn...
    No extra words, no apologies, no explanations, no blubbering -- just Goodbye.
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    #240

    May 25, 2009, 10:43 PM

    OK guys, I have to go to bed now.. thank you all SO much for your help. I will do what you said and be back tomorrow so check the thread.. thanks so much I really mean that thank u

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