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May 25, 2009, 07:27 PM
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Originally Posted by Steve1010
24 hours? what will it accomplish?
A lot more than the mess you've got going right now.
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May 25, 2009, 07:30 PM
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Will it help or hurt me if I don't answer. The relationship
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May 25, 2009, 07:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Steve1010
will it help or hurt me if i dnt answer. the relationship
Help.
But you have to stick to the no-answering thing. Yes, it sounds wrong, but it works soooo well.
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May 25, 2009, 07:37 PM
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Are you a female? How does it work so well if I don't answer. What if she's like I WOULD HAVE GOTTEN BACK W U IF U WOULD ANSWER or says stuff like that. Or tries to make it a serious point to talk to me.. I'm like her only lover/friend, we haven't ever gone a day w.o talking
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May 25, 2009, 07:41 PM
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Originally Posted by Steve1010
are u a female? how does it work so well if i dont answer. what if shes like I WOULD HAVE GOTTEN BACK W U IF U WOULD ANSWER or says stuff like that. or trys to make it a serious point to talk to me.. im like her only lover/friend, we havent ever gone a day w.o talking
Yes, I am female and am also a counselor. Don't let her pull your chain. If you are serious about her, don't reply to her at all! Totally ignore her.
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May 25, 2009, 07:46 PM
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When do I answer
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May 25, 2009, 07:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Steve1010
when do i answer
After 9 p.m. Tuesday evening.
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May 25, 2009, 07:48 PM
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Why 24 hrs though?
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May 25, 2009, 07:52 PM
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Why not? Can you make it a longer time?
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May 25, 2009, 07:52 PM
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Wouldn't she be like, see you don't care your not answaring.
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May 25, 2009, 07:53 PM
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OK, so the shorter the time I wait to text her, or answer her then what? And the longest I take. Like till the weeknd then what?
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May 25, 2009, 07:53 PM
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Isn't she saying that now, even if you answer right away?
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May 25, 2009, 07:54 PM
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Originally Posted by Steve1010
ok, so the shorter the time i wait to text her, or answer her then what? and the longest i take. like till the weeknd then what?
You would never be able to hold out until the weekend.
I figure 24 hrs is a good time span.
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May 25, 2009, 07:58 PM
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She has all the power now. From what u have heard from my story. Do u think she will be back? Do u think she will continue to play mind games with me? Constinatly saying she doesn't know? Whatwould u do?
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May 25, 2009, 08:00 PM
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I want YOU to get some power. I want you to take off that leash. I want you to not buy into her drama.
She will play mind games if you allow her to do so. YOU have that power.
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May 25, 2009, 08:02 PM
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Will she come back? How do I restore the power
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May 25, 2009, 08:02 PM
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She pushed me around, I then listened to her. She then shut me out.. so do u think she will try to contact me? After she said Don't TALK TO ME ANYMORE
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May 25, 2009, 08:03 PM
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Should I delete her from my Facebook? Should I do something like that? What do I do.. I keep looking at her fbook
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May 25, 2009, 08:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Steve1010
will she come back? how do i restore the power
Of course she will come back. You will restore your power by taking control of communication between you two.
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May 25, 2009, 08:05 PM
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But one day will let me have it back? Why do uthink she is so confused and changed her mind all the time!
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