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Fixer12 · May 16, 2009, 08:12 AM

This is a personal problem that I have been dealing with quite some time. My partner has been really good about it, and understand, but it something that I thought would go away, but even after about 2 months it's still around. Is there anything I can do to try and fight it? It's making my love life very difficult on both my partner and I.

I have tried looking up stuff online, and most things you need to pay for. Any help would be greatly appretiated!

mallorym · May 17, 2009, 07:32 PM

Personally, I've heard that if you 'clean the pipes' (so to speak) on a regular basis it can help.

Men who masturbate more often than men who do not eventually learn to get a 'feel' of when they're going to peak and can learn to control it a little better.

pianoman215 · Jun 11, 2009, 05:59 PM

Look on my post mate, same problem... might be some stuff on there which could help!

Gemini54 · Jun 12, 2009, 12:35 AM

Look on the internet for the 'pinching method' - when you feel the momentum building up withdraw and pinch the head of the penis gently, then continue.

Wear a condom! This decreases the sensation until you get used to lasting longer.

Changing sexual positions so that there is less stimulation or deep penetration can also help.

On a lighter note, my ex (who was prone to finishing too soon) said that thinking of the postman helped. I assume he meant the male postman delivering letters!

vinodkiishen · Jun 12, 2009, 03:29 AM

Not to worry dear... you can solve this problem by yourself... Do much foreplays.. Have intercourse... when you feel (now it happen) withdraw you from her... wait a sec.. Put in and... do this trick for 2-3 times in one time... At first it will not work. But be patient you will get result... best of luck

bronzebabe · Jun 12, 2009, 07:45 AM

If you have tried everything, then, do see a doctor to make sure it is not medical.
I have been told that when you feel near climax, that you can count, stop thinking about how it feels and begin to count backwards from 100. I was told that helped.
Good luck.

Triysle · Jun 12, 2009, 09:50 PM

Also, you can adjust your masturbation techniques to incorporate the suggestions here. If you usually rush yourself to orgasm when you masturbate, you can expect a similar performance from intercourse.

Practice makes perfect ;)

~ Tee