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reyzorback · Jul 28, 2008, 12:33 AM

Can anyone help? I want to extend our sex sessions but I cant.. how can I last for long?

Clough · Jul 28, 2008, 01:03 AM

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KissMe10der · Jul 28, 2008, 07:29 AM

A condom can help some of the sensitivity.

If you start and stop when you feel you are getting close, by pulling out and until you have calm down a little just stimulate your partner. Then begin again.

Also, if the women is on top. You will have more control.

Andrew916 · Jul 28, 2008, 09:21 AM

Try using a thicker condom. If it's really bad, try masturbating before you think you'll have sex. Timing depends on how premature/sensitive you are.

smoothy · Jul 28, 2008, 11:16 AM

What 2 hours isn't enough?

Actually a bit more information would help... such as your ages and more details. There is no one size fits all answers.

Choux · Jul 30, 2008, 09:50 AM

It is really important for you to have an understanding of how much time has passed while you are stroking... it is very easy to overestimate or underestimate time, very easy.

However you want to do it, you are going to have to have a clock or stopwatch close by and you are going to have to measure how much time is passing.

From my point of view, five minutes is more than enough time for a young man to stroke. Measure five minutes... just sit there and get a feeling of how long five minutes is. It is *really long*. The stroking portion of sex is the time both you and your partner are to drive toward orgasm depending on what kind of stroking turns the woman on.

I think three minutes should be your goal. Perhaps, the girl is not orgasmic. Measure three minutes... just sit there... it's a reasonable time.

A woman has to do her part by shedding her sexual inhibitions by effort and acquiring orgasmic capacity... or not to complain at all. No complaining about the lengthe of stroking.

Why have your sexual encounter turned into misery? What a disservice to men. Three minutes if enough for stroking... There are many other activities you two can participate in while in bed. :)

Best wishes, :)

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doogie · Aug 3, 2008, 09:57 AM

I can only speak for myself as this isn't something I've typically talked about around the poker table, but this is how I got it under control.

At first I was not exactly setting any endurance records, but I found out that a few things really contributed to me "finishing before I started".

1) Control the amount of foreplay your wife (g/f) gives you. Make sure you give her lots, but I found out that at least 10min of foreplay was almost the same as the "intercourse" portion and I was pretty much half way done when we started. It's sort of like masturbating for 10 min then having sex. Have her caress you kiss you etc what ever she needs, but I found that the heavy petting was speeding things up.

2) When I found out that I was starting to get close, I would stop and do something else. Maybe more foreplay, etc. That gave me time to bring things back under control.

3) Having her on top allows me to go longer which leads into the next part.

4) Try and not involve the pelvic muscle when having intercourse. If you have ever done kegel's or read about it, when I contract these muscles when I'm having intercourse I can bring myself to a finish pretty quick. I've learned that I can get the hip motion down without contracting these muscles and the sensation is still the same. (That's why having her on top helps as I can relax and bring things back under control why she is still enjoying the act.

That's what works for me. I used to be approx 5 min, but I can streach it out to around the hour mark (sometimes more sometimes less), utilizing everything above.

smoothy · Aug 4, 2008, 05:05 AM

Another case where the OP won't answer the question of their age.

Sounds from the question to be another underage poster.

Synnen · Aug 4, 2008, 05:48 AM

Benefit of the doubt given.

Other posts by this person indicate that English is a second language for the OP.

It would be easier to help, though, if more information was given by the OP.