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    Apr 11, 2009, 10:53 PM
    My marriage is falling apart or has it already
    I am a 34 yr old wife & a mother to 2 wonderful sons the ages of 4 and 15. My oldest son does not belong to my husband,and that causes a problem in our marriage. I had my oldest when I was 17 and he knew about him the whole time and we have now been married for 9 yrs but been together for a total of 20 yrs off-and-on again in the past. I don't know what to do because I am in love with my oldest sons father and just found out about 4 months ago that him & his wife are getting a divorce- I just don't know how to feel or what to do... any answers for me?:confused:
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    Apr 13, 2009, 11:12 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by awright View Post
    he knew about him the whole time and we have now been married for 9 yrs but been together for a total of 20 yrs off-and-on again in the past. I dont know what to do because I am in love with my oldest sons father and just found out about 4 months ago that him & his wife are getting a divorce- I just dont know how to feel or what to do....any answers for me?:confused:
    With which one have you been on and off with for 20 years? How do you know that you are in love with the first one?
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    Apr 14, 2009, 02:50 AM
    Why is your oldest son a problem with your husband, and what kind of problems is it creating.
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