My marriage is falling apart or has it already
I am a 34 yr old wife & a mother to 2 wonderful sons the ages of 4 and 15. My oldest son does not belong to my husband,and that causes a problem in our marriage. I had my oldest when I was 17 and he knew about him the whole time and we have now been married for 9 yrs but been together for a total of 20 yrs off-and-on again in the past. I don't know what to do because I am in love with my oldest sons father and just found out about 4 months ago that him & his wife are getting a divorce- I just don't know how to feel or what to do... any answers for me?:confused: