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roxypox · Feb 1, 2009, 08:40 AM

Yeah, maybe you should just leave her alone for a while and give her some space. Have you asked her about it? If something's bothering her?

If you have and she says nothing, then maybe she just needs some space.

kctiger · Feb 1, 2009, 11:43 AM

Solutions can come from communication... Roxy's suggestion was well worded (had to spread the rep). Have you talked to her about it? So many times people come on this website looking for answers that we obviously don't have, but their significant other probably does have.

Talk to her. Even though her actions are speaking for themselves, perhaps a little communication will uncover something that sheds light on this.

talaniman · Feb 1, 2009, 11:57 AM

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Welcome to the real world where females will never be understood by males, LOL!

They require a lot of patiences and understanding, but love is not enough to get a guy the peace and practicality he wants.

Best I can tell you is, if she is worth it, then accept her for what she is. If she is a hassle for you and you can't stand it, forget trying and hoping she will change, she wont. Thats when you leave her alone and move on.

tickle · Feb 1, 2009, 03:00 PM

Sorry, talaniman I never gave myself a chance to finish my comment on the post ! It should have read:' you, well we do ned a lot of patience - if we can't talk !'

Ms tickle

N0help4u · Feb 1, 2009, 03:33 PM

She sounds like it is all about her. She may be having emotional problems and taking it out on you. Have a talk with her and see if she will tell you exactly what is bothering her and how you two can work it out. If she continues to be impossible leave her alone for awhile. Sometimes when we make ourselves too convenient for others they tend to neglect us and take our feelings for granted.
If she still doesn't want to work at the relationship maybe it is best to just let her go.

novak · Jun 30, 2009, 08:33 PM

Here's the thing I love my Gf not the normal stereotypical type of young couple. I do anything she wants me to when she asks she gets a massage every night bla bla bla. Anyway my mates got into my phone sent messages to girls dirty ones and even included pictures that we're intended for her. She seen the messages cos I didn't realise and she think I'm cheating the next day two girls came up to me while I was with my girl and asked if I got the naked pik they sent me. And I have no idea who they were. So now my GF doesn't trust me. And the worste thing is her X is a cheating ********* ****** and I want to kill him. He is her first and it kills me every time I c his name so I asked her to delete his number and she got angry and did it angry to annoy me. Then after I think its over and that she added him on Facebook I hate it because she and her friends used to talk about him all the time when I first started going out with her and wouldn't say his name. In front of me. She has really upset he makes me sick and yet icant say anything because she will turn it all around on me, I love her but I'm nearly done my last thread is going cos I get stressed with a few others things too, any ideas guys

Triysle · Jun 30, 2009, 08:36 PM

Some friends.

Tell her what happened. If you can't get your friends to admit what really happened, then I suggest you get new friends. If she doesn't believe you, then nothing you do or say can change her feelings.

Keep better control of your stuff, man. That's how things get stolen; I've had so many belongings taken by "friends" and roommates that it's not even funny.

Best of luck,

~ Tee

EDIT - Also, she isn't completely over her ex, so she shouldn't be dating anyone else right now. You shouldn't think that you can help her, either; she has to sort it out on her own.

novak · Jun 30, 2009, 11:42 PM

Yeah man my friend admitted it and that bit of a screwed up situation I been with her for over a year and a half and it'll all turn back on me when I talk about it with her, its stupid because she reckons she hates him, obviously not, I think she just wants to play games with mhy head but I reckon ill just leave it and find some omne who does trust me

Romefalls19 · Jul 1, 2009, 05:33 AM

If your friend admitted it and she still doesn't trust you and is talking to her ex, I'd be exiting stage left

slapshot_oi · Jul 1, 2009, 10:23 AM

Yeah, it really sounds like she was just using any excuse she could, and you gave her a good one, just to ditch you and start things fresh with her ex.

novak · Jul 2, 2009, 12:36 AM

Yeah I broke it off with her and yet she still wants me she said her sister butted in (control freak) I had a word to her and then the I get from that I'm not going to back to her when now I'm the only talk in the family and ill get death stares and yet she finally answered me when I said why you do that , she reckon she didn't think she mean anything by it and yet she know how it made me feel, this is why males like to sleep around, no strings attatched with all the benefits