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    breathless1 Posts: 59, Reputation: 2
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    #1

    Nov 6, 2008, 07:08 AM
    The amount to spend
    What can £100,000 get you for a Wedding?

    Considering:

    Dress
    Suit
    Reception
    Guest gifts
    Car hire (pref Ferrari)
    Page Boy, bridesmaids etc
    Air travel for relatives, possibly Hotel stay around 6 people
    Their taxi pick ups to and from the Airport
    Hoilday to Bora Bora Islands or somewhere very hot


    What else is needed for a big wedding?

    How much?
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    Curlyben Posts: 18,514, Reputation: 1860
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    Nov 6, 2008, 07:12 AM
    Welll it seems you have missed out the most important thing...

    The actual wedding venue ;)

    Are you looking at church, hotel, or mud hut ?
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    Nov 6, 2008, 07:53 AM

    That much money can get you deeply in debt even before the wedding vows are finished. That is unless you are rich. I personally have a very hard time understanding why a couple would spend that much money for a wedding that according to world statistics will be over before the debt is paid off. I think you would be far wiser to take 5 to 10% of that money for the wedding and the rest as down payment on a nice house.
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    JBeaucaire Posts: 5,426, Reputation: 997
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    Nov 6, 2008, 03:43 PM

    If that's CASH, $100,000 can buy you a $150,000 wedding. If that's a loan you're taking out, it will buy you a $70,000 wedding.

    Everything in life is negotiable, especially if you're holding the cash in your hand. It makes people crazy more amenable. (I just took delivery last year on 3 new appliances from SEARS that I negotiated 30% off the whole bundle's sale price waving $100 bills at the manager.) If you have cash and a strong spine, you can negotiate that cash into buying a lot.
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    JBeaucaire Posts: 5,426, Reputation: 997
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    Nov 6, 2008, 03:47 PM
    On the other hand, you titled this thread "The amount to spend".

    If that's $100,000 cash, I'd take $20,000 TOTAL to buy us a nice $25,000 negotiated wedding, then $5,000 on the honeymoon of a lifetime. The rest is a down payment on a house... a down payment that means your mortgage will be WONDERFULLY affordable.

    You want to have a successful marriage... think like people who already know that money is the #1 reason couples break up. Beat the money demon off with a broom by never wasting money you can invest in your lives.

    A down payment is an investment... a wedding is a party. Throw a party... but keep in mind the marriage follows immediately after. Start ahead.

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