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    Oct 21, 2008, 10:50 AM
    Who do I choose?
    I've been dating this guy for about 2 months.. but there's another guy I've liked for almost a year. My boyfriend and I are on a "break" so I can figure out what to do. Should I get back with my boyfriend or go after the guy I've liked for almost a year? :confused:
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    Oct 21, 2008, 11:06 AM

    Until you make up your mind, date them both casually, and then make a choice. What's the hurry to be in a relationship??
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    Oct 21, 2008, 11:08 AM

    Because I have a feeling my ex will just give up on me if I take to long..
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    Oct 21, 2008, 11:09 AM

    Way too much drama already, if you aren't sure of your feelings then you shouldn't be with your boyfriend. So end this relationship for good and figure yourself out
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    Oct 21, 2008, 11:33 AM

    The answer is: NEITHER. You could by an example of an "over-lapper". You only ditch the first person, once you KNOW you've got a back-up boyfriend / girlfriend waiting in the wings. Let go of the boyfriend, be single for a while, only date casually and really figure out what you are looking for. Seeking attention and making sure you're never alone is not a good reason to have a boyfriend. Period.
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    Oct 21, 2008, 12:09 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by empria44 View Post
    Because I have a feeling my ex will just give up on me if I take to long..
    That the chance you take when you don't know what you want. I think you just need somebody. Am I right?? Or are you afraid you'll end up with no one??
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    Oct 21, 2008, 03:08 PM

    I really want to be with this guy that I like but I don't know if he likes me back..
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    Oct 21, 2008, 06:21 PM

    Always go with the one you really want and forget the other one.

    Still curious as to why you even think of the ex then, since it's the other guy you like.

    Are you just willing to settle just to have someone?? I mean no disrespect.
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    Oct 21, 2008, 07:18 PM

    So you are using your ex. You admit that you just want him there in case the other guy doesn't want you. Let your ex go, he deserves someone that is capable of appreciating him for himself, not for your games.
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