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    WhatN3XT Posts: 59, Reputation: 7
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    May 13, 2008, 01:43 AM
    Goodbye letter.
    Here is the note my so called love left for me:

    "I love you, I left some stuff out in the open. Because you might not know it would be at. PS I am always think of you. Love you with all my heart/ SS.

    In her defence, wait no... she left me a Iron and some starch, that is wrong.
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    May 13, 2008, 04:20 PM
    Hmmm so she left you and iron and starch well f her then... whats the question lol
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    May 14, 2008, 12:34 AM
    Breaking up is hard to do. You don't HAVE to get all mean and angry at her, do you? Sure she is handling her need to break up with you poorly, but you CAN be the better person and forgive her her weakness.

    When EITHER party dating decides to end it, it's over. Nobody enjoys a confrontation. She knows she doesn't want to date you any more but is also a coward about the confrontation. Certainly you can understand that, even though you are the one hurt by it? You can, can't you? Can't you?

    You will need to move on. Stop punishing her in your mind. Any time you spend on it now is a complete waste of time, and you are punishing no one but yourself while you're at it.

    Forgive her weakness, understand it, and start looking ahead. She's gone, she doesn't need nor deserve any more of your energy.
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    May 14, 2008, 11:24 AM
    Think she was sending a message?
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    May 14, 2008, 11:37 AM
    Perhaps, I mean just a shot in the dark here... She wanted you to iron your clothes? Or she just wanted you to know where a violent weapon was in case someone breaks into the house?

    Keep it rinkle free
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    May 14, 2008, 10:46 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Romefalls19
    Perhaps, I mean just a shot in the dark here...She wanted you to iron your clothes? Or she just wanted you to know where a violent weapon was in case someone breaks into the house?

    keep it rinkle free
    As it turns out, she wants me to iron out my issues. I do have some and I have accepted resposibility about them. She is back in my life and I am happy about that. She has moved back home and I plan on working on everything that was bothering her. I did not know what she was mad about, in fact I told her what bothered me about our relationship. I never asked or pleaded for her to come home, After she knew she was on her own was when she realized I was gone. But once I communicated to her and she communicated to me what was going wrong with us is when we realized love can survive anything.

    There are a lot of heart broken people out there wishing they could have my "we need a break" syndrom go in a positive direction. All I can suggest is talking if possible, and keep the vibe positive. Do not ask questions that may hurt you if you get a real answer. Use the NC boards if needed. I did in fact less than 8 hours into her leaving me. This is a great resource for all of us. Use it or Loose it is a slogan I thought of as I was hurting inside.
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    May 14, 2008, 11:27 PM
    I wish I found this place after my first break up.. sheesh.. anywho good luck to you mate.

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