What went wrong?

Last thing I remember reading about it was you were head over heels for this guy?

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I saw my boy last night, he came to my job. I thought it was nice, but I noticed something about him. He's the jealous type, and I'm not sure if I like that- only because it reminds me of my ex, he started jealous and it just escalated.

Guys can sometimes be d-bags, it's okay, I'm used to it, but buddy here decided to step in and basically claim me. I pulled him aside and told him to calm down that it's part of my job and that at least I'm not some stripper, I just make drinks.. and he told me "why don't you just get another job" and I told him "we'll talk about this later" and he just left me there... it was a nice feeling.

Oh well. It was nice while it lasted.

I am a bit behind here Mudster... why did you give him the cold shoulder?

Ahhh fair play then

Sounds like a fairly insecure dude.

Albear, what's up man?!

Hey kc, not much to be honest

Finished the uni year and now I'm waiting for my results to see what my options are for next year.

Howve you been?

Sounds like a fairly insecure dude.

Albear, what's up man??!!!

Lol yeah I guess so.. oh well. I tried. There's always KC T:p

Hmm today feels like a nothing day, it's raining and grey and I just want to sleep all day. Haha!

Good man, just working a lot. Congrats on finishing Uni. Time to play a bit.

Yes Mudster, there is always KCT. :)

It is raining here too. Kind of BLA!!

Nah, I think if he'll be too jealous to the point of asking you to take some other job, he's not worth it. Whatever you do, good luck Sarah :)

Hello Bear and KC! :)

Me, I nearly have a foot in uni :( Was that hard Bear? :o

Hello Unkster. Saw the "expert" status. Well deserved. You will rock out in uni, you very smart and capable.

KC is hiring right now Sarah... you got the looks and I'm sure you have the touch. ;)

l move to canada?

F***IN' A! YEAH ^_^


It's Eh!

Lol, thanks KC :)

Hello Bella! :)

Hey Unky how are you today?

Agreed muddy, a nothing day sounds good :)

Not so much time to mess about at the moment kc, since I've finished my second year I'm expected to look for a years placement, which means looking for a job for the next year.

Hi unky, was getting a foot into uni hard?
Yes, very, I had to work my of since my grades wernt very good and needed to pull them up abit to get what I needed.

Hi bella

Hey Unk, thanks for the input. I'll definitely take you guys' advice.

What does the job entitle KC?

Did you know that Power Rangers is actually in Japanese that is dubbed over in English? And that the red Power Ranger is now a gay porn star? LOL

I am at my whits end with ym dog. Ever since Sophie left Lady has been even more needier than normal. I left her today for half an hour to vacuum my car, I cam back and there was poop every where in her room. She tore a bag of dog food a part which basically had to go in the garbage because she also pee'd all over the floor. And the dog food I buy is like $50 bucks a bag. She tore the curtains off the window again and pee'd on those, and pooped on my vacuum cleaner.

I have done every thing I possibly know what to do with this dog. She is so freaking perfect when I am with her, but the minute I leave, she is phyco b!tch from Hell! If I leave her in the crate she poops, if I leave her loose in the house, she poops, if I leave her in her room, she poops. We get up every morning at 5 am and go for a walk. Than when my daughter goes to school, I take her for a run across the street in a huge open field. She has free roam of the back yard, and she gets walked for a good 4kms after supper. Plus on warm days she goes swimming. GRRRRRR!


Sorry needed to rant.

Hey bear, how are you? Did you get your internet fixed?

I now visiting another forum that a member here suggested me. It's a math forum, and I can see all sorts of math problems being posted at least each hour. The university math seem tough, with all those weird symbols XD.

Thanks Bear!

It means I have to work harder now... so that I won't have to work so hard later on... hmmm ;)

Lol muddy where do you find these things... on second thought I probably don't want to know :D

Nope bella internet is still down, I think I smell shenanigans, so I'm heading home either tomorrow or the day after and if it still isn't up someone's arse shall get kicked

Oh Shenanigans, that word always reminds me of Super troopers.

Gee... who would have thought, a Power Ranger being a gay porn star?

AMHD, brightening the minds of our youth with every post baby!!

I'm sure you'll get where you want to unky, your very hard working and have a lot higher grades than I did :)

It means I have to work harder now... so that I won't have to work so hard later on... hmmm ;)


You'll do fine Unky, you are genius! Did I spell that right?

How's your puppy KC?

She is doing well AB. Thanks for asking. She is a ball of energy though, and she is constantly talking back to me :p!! Very vocal dog.

Aww! What did you name her, and how come we haven't seen any pics?

I woke up this morning with all 7 cats in my bed. I think they wanted to make sure I couldn't move without them knowing.

Then, a kitten tried to slit my wrist when I was kicking them out my room. If I let them play in my room during the day, I end up finding dirty laundry dragged into the kitchen, my night stand cleared off, and cats hanging from the clothes in my closet.

I finally found a harness and leash for spot. All I have to do is make sure it fits.

And, it's not even 2pm, yet.

It's Eh!!

Frickin' a is a favorite phrase of mine. Don't really know why or where I got it from. It's become a bit more 'adult' in recent years, at least on occasion.

Moving to canada would NOT give me a canadian accent. Just like moving to northern Ohio hasn't gotten rid of my central Ohio accent.

Moving to canada gave my friend a canadian accent, of course he still claims to have kept his british accent :)

Is it really that different.

Alty, one question, would I have to know french to live in your neck of the woods? That might be a deal breaker.

It is very noticeable to say the least :D

is it really that different.

alty, one question, would i have to know french to live in your neck of the woods? that might be a deal breaker.

No french here. I don't know one single person that speaks french, other then the limited french they learn in school.

We speaka da English here. :)

We speak Nova Scotian here. But you would still have to say Eh Hheath, when in Rome...

We speak Nova Scotian here. But you would still have to say Eh Hheath, when in Rome...

Bella, I have to say that no one that I know every uses "eh". Seriously, I only hear that on TV when Americans are trying to portray Canadians. ;)

It must be an Alberta thing. ;)

Really, every one I kn ow uses it, but not how the Americans say it. More like "oh I know Eh"? But us East Coasters are a bunch of fishing hill billies. :p

Pff Alberta is filled with East Coasters lol.

No french here. I don't know one single person that speaks french, other then the limited french they learn in school.

We speaka da English here. :)

Good. I refuse to learn french. Too many letters just don't need to be in their words.

I hate technology. Now instead of waiting by the phone for a call, you wait by the phone, the cell and the computer. GAAAAWWWD. Someone please put me out of my misery.

Everybody speaks english anyway, and if they don't, they should :D

(virtual cookie if you can guess the movie :) )

A couple hundred years ago, everyone was learning french as the universal language of the developed world. Before that, it was latin. Now it's english. Chinese will probably be next.

I am so very happy right now. I could burst!

I just got a call, looked at the call display, didn't recognize the number. I don't usually answer when I don't know the number, but I thought "What the heck, I'm bored anyway".

So I answered and a lady asked for me. I said "speaking" and she said "It's Mandy from Germany!" My cousins ex wife, and a very good friend of mine.

Biggest surprise, she's in Edmonton with her kids! She hasn't been here in 20 years!

Sadly they leave on Saturday, so we made plans for Friday. I'm letting the kids have a day off, we're meeting at West Edmonton Mall for the day.

This is the best surprise I've had in a long time. I'm giddy!

Just thought I'd share. :)

We now go back to our regular scheduled program. :)

Awesome Alty! That mall is so much fun.

I'm hoping a couple of my friends will be able to come up so we can go to pride together later this month.

I had an eventful day. Kitten almost slit my wrist. I found a harness and leash for spot. I took spot outside, then decided to take edith out (she doesn't mind the harness and leash at all). Went to the beach and found rocks and driftwood. Realized on the way BACK from the beach that it was after 5 and I hadn't eaten anything but the banana I had around 11. Got home and showered because I was so sweaty I could smell myself.

Now I'm just relaxing and watching the crazy, furry people I live with.

Two nights ago a troll came to the site, Sean something or other. He followed me around just to be an a$$.

Well of course he was banned. Sadly he has no life and now he's back, under the username Iamawesome, or something like that.

I've already reported him, but if you really want to see a troll in action, a guy with no life, here you go.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-home-garden/how-take-care-laminate-floors-475400.html

He won't be around long, and so far he's just going to whichever threads I've posted on, so if you want some entertainment, you better act fast. He'll be banned shortly, but I'm sure that he'll be back even after he's banned.

Some people really are pathetic.

Two nights ago a troll came to the site, Sean something or other. He followed me around just to be an a$$.

Well of course he was banned. Sadly he has no life and now he's back, under the username Iamawesome, or something like that.

I've already reported him, but if you really want to see a troll in action, a guy with no life, here you go.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-home-garden/how-take-care-laminate-floors-475400.html

He won't be around long, and so far he's just going to whichever threads I've posted on, so if you want some entertainment, you better act fast. He'll be banned shortly, but I'm sure that he'll be back even after he's banned.

Some people really are pathetic.

He's really trying, isn't he?:rolleyes: I think I would have 'peeved' this one.

He's really trying, isn't he?:rolleyes: I think I would have 'peeved' this one.

I should have peeved it, because now the little troll is here. :(

Everyone say hi to Sean, he has no life, he claims to be here to laugh at the losers, sadly he doesn't realize that he's the biggest loser of them all.

Back under the bridge Sean, where you belong! :)

Aww Alty you've got a fan

Sadly doesn't seem have many brain cells though :(

Hi sean. Gawd I hate loosers like him.

alty, I didn't know you were mexican. When did you move? You should've swung by my place on your way south ^_^


ohhh a steam mop. nice thinking altenweg. i would consider tearing up the floor and living on the road since your house proabably sucks already you poor mexican

I should have peeved it, because now the little troll is here. :(

Everyone say hi to Sean, he has no life, he claims to be here to laugh at the losers, sadly he doesn't realize that he's the biggest loser of them all.

Back under the bridge Sean, where you belong! :)

Cats said that Summer is officially here because the trolls are out.

I wonder what troll stew tastes like? Probably like bullsh!t.

Cats said that Summer is offically here because the trolls are out.


Makes sense.

aww Alty youve got a fan

sadly doesnt seem have many brain cells though :(

Can I toss this one back please? ;)

alty, i didn't know you were mexican. when did you move? you should've swung by my place on your way south ^_^

Not a big fan of Mexico.

We went a few days after I found out I was pregnant with my daughter. It was planned, both the trip and the pregnancy, but I didn't realize I'd be so sick. I wasn't with my son.

It was a horrible two weeks. Praying to the porcelain God when I haven't had a drink is not my idea of fun.

The marsh tour was cool though. :)

Cats said that Summer is offically here because the trolls are out.

Considering that Seans reason for joining AMHD was to ask about his 15 year old girlfriend, I'm guessing he's 15 or younger, so you, Cats is dead on.

Too bad Sean doesn't take up reading or something. He thinks we're a bunch of losers for helping people on this site, yet he can't seem to stay away.

Oh the irony! :)

i wonder what troll stew tastes like? probably like bullsh!t.

Grab the potatoes. I'm willing to try it. :)

Considering that Seans reason for joining AMHD was to ask about his 15 year old girlfriend, I'm guessing he's 15 or younger, so ya, Cats is dead on.

Too bad Sean doesn't take up reading or something. He thinks we're a bunch of losers for helping people on this site, yet he can't seem to stay away.

Oh the irony! :)

That explains what happened to that thread. Ohso can catch up later if she is still wondering. :)

What thread?

That explains what happened to that thread. Ohso can catch up later if she is still wondering. :)

You lost me Cat.

Let me catch up. ;)

You lost me Cat.

Let me catch up. ;)

The tread went byebye and Ohso was asking (in a pm) what happened to it because rep that she got in it suddenly said N/A where the title was.

Why can't KP be on when I'm here. Boo.

I completely second that boo.

Tho' its probably better for me. Ja'd own me a little, and that's only fun for a couple of awesome years in my experience.

Sorry.

Was that jaded?

It was, wasn't it?

I have a thing for cute, naughty brunettes with good hearts. It's a pattern.

Moving on...

As for the boy... if he isn't willing to chase you now, it won't be any easier later on... just my two cents. A cold shoulder shouldn't block him from showing some interest... so, I guess don't write him off completely, but he has work to do.

good. i refuse to learn french. too many letters just don't need to be in their words.

This made me laugh

Do you want to hear something GROSS?

At McDonalds the chicken strips [without the fries or soda] is 55 grams of fat and about 800 CALORIES :eek: That is freaky! Imagine getting the fries, pop and dip to go with that--- that would be 1700 calories-- that's almost a days worth of calories.

Note to self: don't mention to muddy what I plan on eating as she might go calorie-nazi on me

Lol Bear! I think I need to take this note down too ;)

From Cheesecake Factory tops 'Xtreme Eating Awards' list (http://www.azcentral.com/thingstodo/dining/articles/2010/05/26/20100526xtreme-eating-awards-cheesecake-factory.html)

"The Cheesecake Factory's Pasta Carbonara with Chicken, which, in addition to the 2,500 calories, has 85 grams of saturated fat. That's more saturated fat than a person should consume in four days, Liebman says. The dish has four cups of white-flour pasta, smoked bacon, chicken, and Parmesan cream and butter sauce."

...

Tho' I personally think the chicken mcnugget is one of the most disgusting inventions ever. I know the topic was the strips... but ick to 'em all.

I just ate home made hash browns, and they were gr-ea-sy!

I made fruit salad. Apples, bananas, strawberries, kiwi, pineapple, and mandarin oranges. Does that mean I get the healthy food award?

Bar-B-que mmmmhhhmmmm, that's some guuuuud eating :D

bar-B-que mmmmhhhmmmm, thats some guuuuud eatin :D

Bear, did you watch the last episode of LOST?

Bear, did you watch the last episode of LOST?


Stupidest episode ever.

What's up with all you? I just saw this.

I'm trying to decide if I want to make myself french toast tonight. The last time I tried, my milk was spoiled. I have new milk, now, though.

Bear, did you watch the last episode of LOST?

I did stringer, kind of mixed feelings but all around thought it was OK :)

Hi bella
Hi jenny
Hi heath

I'm debating whether boys suck or not.

Hey Bear, hey Jennie, Hheath.

Which side are you on bella 'for' or 'against'?

I'm debating whether boys suck or not.

Hey Bear, hey Jennie, Hheath.

Boys are yucky.

Now, if I could only find a girl who sucks...

Lol Bear, I don't know any more. I used to be for, but now... tired of playing silly games with silly boys.

boys are yucky.

now, if i could only find a girl who sucks.......

Instant Rimshot (http://instantrimshot.com/)

Same here heath

Wt?

Lol Hheath!! Must resist saying something dirty...

lol Bear, I don't know any more. I used to be for, but now... tired of playing silly games with silly boys.

To be honest id agree with you

But then again I don't like people :D

Ya, I'm not such a fan anymore.

Now, if I could find a girl who sucks AND swallows...

Hheath!! :eek::eek::eek::eek:

What... no I can't even ask that question...

Hheath!!!!! :eek::eek::eek::eek:

What ... no i can't even ask that question....

Why not? If it's too far into WT territory, then ask it in private. As long as it's an honest question, I won't mind answering it.

It's only sleezeball questions I have a problem with. Some guys really WILL ask if they can watch. Some even ask if they can join in.

LMAO heath, I wouldn't be surprised if you end up with a slapped wrist soon :D


To be honest id be happy to just find a girl :)

Slapped wrist are nothing. I got my wrist slit yesterday by a kitten. If it'd been about a quarter of an inch over and a bit deeper, I would've been in trouble. Not the first time a cat slit that wrist, though.

Aww Bear. Girls suck too. Always with the drama. Hheath, I will have to think of how to phrase that question...

Keep an eye on that one remember:
http://icanhascheezburger.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/funny-pictures-one-kitten-plots-your-demise.jpg

Those 1 out of 5 were always the cats I had.

To me all cats are the one out of five :o

Pretty sure 4 of my 7 are plotting my demise. Unky just isn't interested. Mop would miss the cuddles. Aura would never want blood on her paws, she's too much of a princess for that.

Edith goes after me every time she sees the bottom of the food dish. Spot is constantly attacking my legs. Alty-cat's the one that slit my wrist. Zoe... you know what... I think zoe's working for aura.

Make that 5 of my 7 cats are plotting my demise.

Well if aura is doing the plotting and zoe is just following orders then technicall its still 4 :)

4 out of 7 isn't bad

Yeah, but I think zoe's the brains in that relationship. Aura's just supplying incentive.

LOL are you saying my cat is evil AND dumb>?

No, she just prefers to outsource.

Ok well. That's better. So what's the incentive she is supplying?

Cookies?

Maybe she threatened to feed her to M?

Be eaten... get cookies
Be eaten... get cookies
Be eaten... get cookies

Hmmmmm tough decission

Well... OK WT...

Touche' bella :D

Reet I'm off gals, hope your day goes better than mine did

And hope the rest of your week goes better than I expect mine to.

Take care, oh and hope there aren't any more cat attacks heath :)

Yeah, right. I live with 7 troublemakers. One of whom just peed on my floor.

That's OK, though. I have a plate of french toast next to me begging to be eaten.

Night bear. Chin up.

Anyone around?

I'm sick. Really sick. Throwing up sick. Light headed sick. Just sick, sick, sick.

I'm so sick that I cried. For those that don't know me well, I don't cry! Well, not unless someone I love dies.

I swear that I'm one step away from curling up into the fetal position and sucking my thumb.

I can't be sick right now. I'm going out for a day of fun with my cousins ex wife from Germany, and her kids, and my kids, and the whole shebang. I can't reschedule, she leaves Saturday.

So, does anyone have a quick fix? I'm willing to try anything. I'll shoot shark pee up my nose if it will work, even though I'm pretty sure finding shark pee won't be easy.

Anyone?

Anything?

What about the wonderful Wiccans on the site? Does anyone have a get well now spell? Remember, I'm willing to try anything!

Sigh.

Stupid body hates me so darn much. Maybe I should order a new one. Do you think Sears catologue (ok how the fark do you spell that?) has any?

Awws poor Alty!! Have you ever tried that cold fx stuff? Super expensive, but my mom swears by it. Also she drinks this mushroom tea (ha ha not that kind of mushroom) but she swears by it.

Awws poor Alty!!! have you ever tried that cold fx stuff? Super expensive, but my mom swears by it. Also she drinks this mushroom tea (ha ha not that kind of mushroom) but she swears by it.

I have tried the cold fx, it made my cold come on stronger, faster, and last longer then ever before. A lot to spend to be sicker. ;)

I don't think it's a cold anyway. It's a tummy thing. I don't have the sniffles, or a sore throat, just a really yucky tummy, throwing up, weak, and blah! We plan to go to the museum tomorrow. Throwing up and pooing my guts out in the museum is not my idea of gits and shiggles.

Mushrooms? Do tell. ;)

I have tried the cold fx, it made my cold come on stronger, faster, and last longer then ever before. A lot to spend to be sicker. ;)

I don't think it's a cold anyway. It's a tummy thing. I don't have the sniffles, or a sore throat, just a really yucky tummy, throwing up, weak, and blah! We plan to go to the museum tomorrow. Throwing up and pooing my guts out in the museum is not my idea of gits and shiggles.

Mushrooms? Do tell. ;)

Alty chicken noodle soup.. It really works and a real coke.. not diet... in ice chips... If not chicken soup... chilcken broth. Try it as hot as you can stand it. It really works.:)

You can try peppermint. Either suck on a peppermint, or drink peppermint tea, if you have some. It should help settle your stomach, at least a little.

It sounds like you either picked up a stomach bug, or ate something that was off.

As for spells, I don't really practice spells. I do, however use stones.

Do you have any citrine, amethyst, peridot, topaz, onyx, or snowflake obsidian? All of them are good for stomach troubles.

Clear quartz is good for diarrhea.

Amber, malachite, agate, amethyst, clear quartz, and sodalite are all good general healing stones.

If you have any of those, just hold them in your hand (or wear them, if they're jewelry) and focus on feeling better. Carry them with you when you go out tomorrow.

Throwing a few peppermints in your purse wouldn't hurt, either. I use peppermint whenever my stomach feels a bit off, or when I have cramps.

Ginger always helps to settle a tummy. You can get the all natural gravol, that is only made with ginger, doesn't make you drowsy, but helps big time with the nausea and poops.

I have tried the cold fx, it made my cold come on stronger, faster, and last longer then ever before. A lot to spend to be sicker. ;)

I don't think it's a cold anyway. It's a tummy thing. I don't have the sniffles, or a sore throat, just a really yucky tummy, throwing up, weak, and blah! We plan to go to the museum tomorrow. Throwing up and pooing my guts out in the museum is not my idea of gits and shiggles.

Mushrooms? Do tell. ;)

Here are a few things you can try. First off stick to clear liquids for a little. I suggest chicken bullion cubes. Yes its salty but it will help get your stomach back. Another thing if you have it is drink camomile tea. It will sooth you and is a great healer for many things both internal and external. When you start feeling better go on a BRAT diet till your feeling good enough to eat solids. If you have never heard of brat diet (Bananas, Rice, AND Toast). You will feel better in no time. Hope its soon too :)

You could also try Sprite and soda crackers.

Thanks ladies.

I'll try it all. Chicken noodle soup will be on the stove in a bit. Sadly I don't do pop. My poor tummy can't handle pop, it's used to beer and coffee. ;)

I don't have peppermint. :( I do however have a beautiful amethyst necklace. I never wear it because it's huge. If I ever get an invite to dine with the queen, it's the perfect accessory. ;) It was a wedding gift from a friend of the family. I was supposed to sell it as a down payment on a house. It's from the 1700's, white gold. I think I have a picture. Let me find it.

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I'll try that. Wear it under my shirt tomorrow. :)

Here are a few things you can try. First off stick to clear liquids for alittle. I suggest chicken bullion cubes. Yes its salty but it will help get your stomach back. Another thing if you have it is drink camomile tea. It will sooth you and is a great healer for many things both internal and external. When you start feeling better go on a BRAT diet till your feeling good enough to eat solids. If you have never heard of brat diet (Bananas, Rice, AND Toast). You will feel better in no time. Hope its soon too :)

Will do. :)

Brat diet. I love it. I am a brat, should work really well. :)

Ginger always helps to settle a tummy. You can get the all natural gravol, that is only made with ginger, doesn't make you drowsy, but helps big time with the nausea and poops.

Now Ginger ale or Ginger I can handle.

Actually, I think I have some Ginger tea. I'll brew that while I'm making the soup. :)

OMG I love that necklace. Gorgeous. I would wear it daily.

Will do. :)

Brat diet. I love it. I am a brat, should work really well. :)



Hope wou feel better... Hugs:) That neclace probably cost more than my car!! Beautiful

OMG I love that necklace. Gorgeous. I would wear it daily.

I was just about to say the same thing ^_^

amethyst is very possibly my favorite stone, ever. Not only is it gorgeous, it's a very versatile and useful stone to have around.

OMG I love that necklace. Gorgeous. I would wear it daily.

If I lost it I could never live with myself.

That thing sits in a drawer, never been worn. It was appraised 20 years ago and well, it could pay off my house.

I'd be too scared to wear it. I'm too scared to sell it. It's my safety net. ;)

i was just about to say the same thing ^_^

amethyst is very possibly my favorite stone, ever. not only is it gorgeous, it's a very versatile and useful stone to have around.

Night Alty... Bella

i was just about to say the same thing ^_^

amethyst is very possibly my favorite stone, ever. not only is it gorgeous, it's a very versatile and useful stone to have around.

It is a beautiful necklace, but it's not an every day necklace. It's "tea with the queen" or "getting married" type of jewelry.

It's huge. It's heavy. It's blingy. It's everything I'm not. I wear earrings, and that's about it. When I wear a necklace it's the one my dad gave me or the one R gave me (the one R gave me is half a heart with my birth stone in the middle. It represents the half of my heart that I lost when my parents died, and the half I still have because of him and the kids). Feel free to laugh. I'm a very symbolic person.

Things that mean a lot to me aren't necessarily things that are the most beautiful, or the most expensive, they're just the things that hold meaning, that hold memories, that make me feel warm and cuddly, loved.

The amethyst, although beautiful, has no special meaning to me. It's just a necklace. In fact, the person that gave it to me cut off contact shortly after my parents died. He's an old man, lives in Germany, and the only reason he gave me the necklace to begin with was because of his love for my parents. I haven't talked to him in 9 years, he won't take my calls, claims it's too hard to talk to me. He once said "you should have died instead of you mother. She was so much more important then you".

Wearing the necklace isn't on the top 10 list of things to do, but I will if it will help me feel better, because my family is here from Germany and I get to see them. I'd like to be well enough to have fun tomorrow, to make some memories, because frankly, it may be 20 years before I see them again. :(

It is a beautiful necklace, but it's not an every day necklace. It's "tea with the queen" or "getting married" type of jewelry.

It's huge. It's heavy. It's blingy. It's everything I'm not. I wear earrings, and that's about it. When I wear a necklace it's the one my dad gave me or the one R gave me (the one R gave me is half a heart with my birth stone in the middle. It represents the half of my heart that I lost when my parents died, and the half I still have because of him and the kids). Feel free to laugh. I'm a very symbolic person.

Things that mean a lot to me aren't necessarily things that are the most beautiful, or the most expensive, they're just the things that hold meaning, that hold memories, that make me feel warm and cuddly, loved.

The amethyst, although beautiful, has no special meaning to me. It's just a necklace. In fact, the person that gave it to me cut off contact shortly after my parents died. He's an old man, lives in Germany, and the only reason he gave me the necklace to begin with was because of his love for my parents. I haven't talked to him in 9 years, he won't take my calls, claims it's too hard to talk to me. He once said "you should have died instead of you mother. She was so much more important then you".

Wearing the necklace isn't on the top 10 list of things to do, but I will if it will help me feel better, because my family is here from Germany and I get to see them. I'd like to be well enough to have fun tomorrow, to make some memories, because frankly, it may be 20 years before I see them again. :(

What a horrible man. What would we do without you? He should know you have the best heart of anyone. Gosh that makes me mad. He sounds like a very bitter man. It's his loss Alty... :)

I'm with kitty on this. Horrible, bitter, old man. I can see why you don't really love the necklace.

Do you have any other stones or jewelry with stones in it? I might be able to help you find something else that will work.

I'm with kitty on this. horrible, bitter, old man. i can see why you don't really love the necklace.

do you have any other stones or jewelry with stones in it? i might be able to help you find something else that will work.




Night Heath, Alty ,Bella, Edith and all the kitties... :)

What a horrible man. What would we do without you? He should know you have the best heart of anyone. Gosh that makes me mad. He sounds like a very bitter man. It's his loss Alty.....:)

Thanks Kit.

It was hard to accept. I call him Uncle, have since I was a child. He was a huge part of my life. He and his late wife came to visit us often, and we went to visit them.

They never had kids. I was always told that I was like a grandchild to them. They're much older then my parents were. In fact, he would be in his early nineties now. Yes, he's still alive.

To lose both my parents and then lose him, it was hard.

I'm not bitter about it anymore, I'm just sad about it. Sad for him, sad for me. I don't want to be angry, but it's not always easy.

He loved my parents very much. I thought he loved me too. I guess not. No loss though. I have many people that love me and I love them right back. :)

I'm with kitty on this. horrible, bitter, old man. i can see why you don't really love the necklace.

do you have any other stones or jewelry with stones in it? i might be able to help you find something else that will work.

I have my favorite necklace. It's a sapphire.

Thanks Kit.

It was hard to accept. I call him Uncle, have since I was a child. He was a huge part of my life. He and his late wife came to visit us often, and we went to visit them.

They never had kids. I was always told that I was like a grandchild to them. They're much older then my parents were. In fact, he would be in his early nineties now. Yes, he's still alive.

To lose both my parents and then lose him, it was hard.

I'm not bitter about it anymore, I'm just sad about it. Sad for him, sad for me. I don't want to be angry, but it's not always easy.

He loved my parents very much. I thought he loved me too. I guess not. No loss though. I have many people that love me and I love them right back. :)

As I said.. when you needed him most he wasn't there. I think that's beyond reprehensible.. I will say a prayer for him to realize what he's lost by not having you and your sweet children and R. in his life. He's the one whose lost out!

I heard a loud popping noise about an hour ago, but ignored. Heard a louder one a few minutes ago, that sent all the cats running for cover, so I went to investigate.

I put eggs on to boil after making french toast. That was about 3-4 hours ago.

You figure out what the noise was.

i have my favorite necklace. It's a sapphire.

Sapphire is a symbol of faithfulness, loyalty, and love. Unfortunately, it has no effect on tummy troubles, at all.

i heard a loud popping noise about an hour ago, but ignored. heard a louder one a a few minutes ago, that sent all the cats running for cover, so i went to investigate.

i put eggs on to boil after making french toast. that was about 3-4 hours ago.

you figure out what the noise was.

:eek: Did they burn?

R burnt eggs trying to boil them once.

The water was all gone. All that was left was black burst eggs.

The smell lasted for a week, even with the windows open.

I thought I was having a stroke! ;)

:eek: Did they burn?

R burnt eggs trying to boil them once.

The water was all gone. All that was left was black burst eggs.

The smell lasted for a week, even with the windows open.

I thought I was having a stroke! ;)

Not so much burned, as EXPLODED! There's half an exploded egg all over my kitchen floor.

Thankfully, tonight is trash night. Once the eggs cool enough not to melt the bag, I'll clean up the mess, throw out the eggs, and put out the trash.

OK, if you have a timer that doen't shut off until you shut it off, use it. Every time I boil water for iced tea, the timer gets set for 10 minutes.

Yep, I have a story to tell. I was a little one and put water on to boil when mom wasn't home. Ended up with a charcoal bottomed pot on the inside in which I had to clean before mom got home. Boy, that was a lot of work.

Alty:
Enjoy your family. AMHD can wait.

Instant Rimshot (http://instantrimshot.com/)

same here heath

wt?

Ever read something like this and think the worst... and then feel like you are always in the gutter when you find out...

Oh never mind.

I completely misunderstood.

OK, if you have a timer that doen't shut off until you shut it off, use it. Everytime I boil water for iced tea, the timer gets set for 10 minutes.

Yep, I have a story to tell. I was a little one and put water on to boil when mom wasn't home. Ended up with a charcoal bottomed pot on the inside in which I had to clean before mom got home. Boy, that was a lot of work.

Alty:
Enjoy your family. AMHD can wait.

The timer on my stove doesn't work. I'd use the microwave, but it doesn't make a sound when it turns off.

I once completely ruined a pot by 'boiling water' for about 6 hours. The bottom buckled and cracked.

I think I should stop boiling eggs.

Thanks ladies.

I'll try it all. Chicken noodle soup will be on the stove in a bit. Sadly I don't do pop. My poor tummy can't handle pop, it's used to beer and coffee. ;)

I don't have peppermint. :( I do however have a beautiful amethyst necklace. I never wear it because it's huge. If I ever get an invite to dine with the queen, it's the perfect accessory. ;) It was a wedding gift from a friend of the family. I was supposed to sell it as a down payment on a house. It's from the 1700's, white gold. I think I have a picture. Let me find it.

31265

I'll try that. Wear it under my shirt tomorrow. :)

Have you had that appraised? If its really that deep a color with good clarity, it might be worth more than a little coin... meaning I hope you get it appraised and you insure it. Bad things happen sometimes... and that might be one hell of a piece of jewelry snuggled against thy bossom.

It was appraised 20 years ago and well, it could pay off my house.

Oops. Never mind. Question answered.

Alty he sounds like a huge JERK! Night Kitty, sorry kind of spaced out there for a minute.

ever read something like this and think the worst... and then feel like you are always in the gutter when you find out...

oh nevermind.

i completely misunderstood.

KP, the gutter is your home.

Now move over and make room for me. ;)

KP, the gutter is your home.

Now move over and make room for me. ;)

There is a difference between living in the gutter and being sensually naughty.

You and I are the latter... other people we judge... they might be gutterable perverts.

I think I am one of those gutterable perverts.

Me, too.

You know, my wrists are still unslapped. I. am. Good.

=)

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/should-disvirgin-girlfriend-459497.html#post2377542

Somebody help me get this guy into a back alley. I'm glad to do the rough stuff. You watch the main street for interference and divert.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/2377542-post8.html

somebody help me get this guy into a back alley. im glad to do the rough stuff. you watch the main street for interference and divert.

What a complete wanker :eek:

There are a few grammaticle errors in his post that he needs to work on.

Have I ever mentioned that I LOVE ripping into a$$hats like him?

OK, time for me to go clean up exploded eggs, clean out the litter boxes, take out the trash, and crash.

There are a few grammaticle errors in his post that he needs to work on.

I'm glad I'm not the only one who noticed that.

Since when is disvirgin a word? It's not in any dictionary I've ever read.

have i ever mentioned that i LOVE ripping into a$$hats like him?


I am no angel.

I've done a pretty decent job of controlling my temper over the years. Most of the time.

Some days I've not done so well and gotten away with it. It happens. Sometimes its good to hear another person labor to breathe after you've hit first and are lookng down at them.

But really...

I've been ticked off, pi$$ed off, etc enough times over the years... somehow this guy is a top five for me.

I don't expect any fellow guy to be a saint... we are idiots... and we are crude sometimes by our nature...

All that said... this punk is also an idiot.

He doesn't deserve any woman's love

I just get a deep sense of satisfaction knowing I was able to use language to put someone in their place. It's even better if I can phrase it so they're not sure if they were insulted, or complimented.

That man is an insult to men! He pi$$ed me off so bad I couldn't even respond.

How about this one?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/philosophy/place-like-therapy-some-people-476265.html

Arrr!

Disvirgin boy is going to need a new head when I'm done with him.

KP, you hold him down, I'll slap the snot out of him.

Men like that make me so darn angry.

German girl is about to get her temper on.

I want to slap him with his own penis!

How about this one?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/philosophy/place-like-therapy-some-people-476265.html

J, my post to him will probably be deleted. :(

I hope not Alty. He needs a slap in the face as well.

He! I'm all into slapping people tonight!

Urgh, the night started bad!

I hope not Alty. He needs a slap in the face as well.

He!! I'm all into slapping people tonight!

Urgh, the night started off bad!

I'm with you J.

Just lead the way. We'll take turns holding and slapping. :)

I think you are doing a pretty good job all by yourself.

I need to go to bed. The birds just woke up.

I think the scratches on my wrist are mildly infected. If they're still red tomorrow, I'll pick the scabs off and scrub them with bactine, again.

Night Heath...

I think you are doing a pretty good job all by yourself.

Thank you madam.

Enjoy it for now, I may be banned tomorrow. :eek:

At this point it would be worth it. Besides, Ben loves me too much to ban me forever. Right? He'd only kick me off for a few days. Wouldn't he?

Ben! I'm sorry Ben. I didn't mean to do it. Get your finger away from the ban button. Please, give me another... um... a 3000th chance! :eek:

Should I promise to behave or have we all come to the conclusion that that's just not going to happen? ;)

Night Heath.

Wait... the birds are up?

Morning Heath. :)

Nope, not going to happen. We all know you too well.

Nope, not gonna happen. We all know you too well.

Shhhh, some people still believe I have it in me to be good! ;)

I do try. I really do. I just can't. I really can't. Some people just bring out the mad in me.

Let's be honest though, some people really deserve to have their heads ripped off and have me shout down the hole. :cool:

Oops. Was that out loud? :eek:

Oh crap! It's time for bed. I didn't realize how late it was.

Family fun day tomorrow. I get to see my cousins ex wife and the kids. I'm thrilled! I just hope I stop throwing up by then. :(

Pepto Bismol, tea, crackers, chicken soup, my amethyst necklace and... what else was there?

I'll either be super well tomorrow, or worse then I am now. ;)

Night all.

Sweet dreams Alty. Hope you feel better. Have fun.

Hello Hi Bonjour!

Mornin' Muddy

Mornin' Muddy

What's up J_9 :)

I'm going to the salon in 15 min, I want to try something new but not too new. Any ideas?

Ugh, I want to try something new too. Well I did actually, got colored. DARK and I'm usually blonde.

Ugh, I wanna try something new too. Well I did actually, got colored. DARK and I'm usually blonde.

Nice!

Well I have long dark hair. I'd like to keep it long, so scissors are NO option lol. I look very ugly with short hair. ICK!

Maybe get a few blue streaks in my hair?:p Go a little lighter? :rolleyes:

You know what's going to happen? I'll go to the salon and do the same thing I do... get a deep condition, get a 1/2 inch trimmed off my ends and then styled.. lol I'm sooo boring.

Good luck hun.

I'm holding my eyelids up with toothpicks about now. Going to hit the hay!

lol I'm sooo boring.

If you think that you haven't read your own posts. ;)
Have fun at the salon, Muddy.:)


Rest well, J.

Tonight is graduation!

If I ever get an invite to dine with the queen, it's the perfect accessory. ;)

I thought you were the queen ;) :D


i have my favorite necklace. It's a sapphire.

Ah! My favourite stone :)


sapphire is a symbol of faithfulness, loyalty, and love. unfortunately, it has no effect on tummy troubles, at all.

Ah? It's good to know :)

Hello everyone! :)

Hello unky,long time no talk.

Congrats on your expert status!

Hello Red! Yes, it's been a long time :)

I've seen you on Facebook, here and there.

Thanks! :)

So, how are you now? Did you get your results yet? :)

No results until September.

I'm so so glad there over,I found it tough going,I'm confident I did well,however hindsight is a wonderful thing,I always regret something I did not write down.

How are you? How's your mother and sister?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/should-disvirgin-girlfriend-459497.html#post2377542

somebody help me get this guy into a back alley. im glad to do the rough stuff. you watch the main street for interference and divert.


Wow what a freaking jerk off. I'm glad I missed that one. Pathetic. Yuck. I hate him.

I'm fine, my mock exams are in about three weeks :)

And the final year exams will be at the end of October, till mid or end November.

Trying to revise all the things I went through since last year...

Mum and sister are okay, they're watching a local comedy right now. They're been learning some guitar... that's it as news...

How about this one?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/philosophy/place-like-therapy-some-people-476265.html

Dang I missed this one. It's gone.

I'm fine, my mock exams are in about three weeks :)

And the final year exams will be at the end of October, till mid or end November.

Trying to revise all the things I went through since last year...

Mum and sister are okay, they're watching a local comedy right now. They're been learning some guitar... that's it as news...

My own two daughters have there final exams on Tuesday,then off to college,(fingers crossed).

I've been learning how to swim, freestyle... im quite a crappy swimmer,so have gotten a few lessons,I need gills!

Hello miss bella,congrats on expert status!

Ah... freestyle... the fastest swimming style I know... but can match butterfly.

I prefer backstroke though, been my favourite, least tiring for me :)

Ah... freestyle... the fastest swimming style I know... but can match butterfly.

I prefer backstroke though, been my favourite, least tiring for me :)


Breathing is my problem,although it should not be if my position is correct,very frustrating!

I have some neck problems which is proving difficult of me to reach the trough of air,my reach is good,have been told my kick is strong,but something is off balance,that I cannot get into the correct position to take a breath.

Any suggestions? Or drills I can practice?

Well, when I learned, my breathing too was not so good. I was pulling my head too much off the water and this resulted in a 'disbalance'.

With time and practice, I learned to raise my head so that my mouth was just touching the surface of the water, without swallowing any of it.

You can try holding a floater with one hand and use only the other hand. At each stroke, try to raise your head just to the surface of the water. Do not try to breathe then, just in case you happen not to raise your head enough. You will breathe on 1 out of three strokes if you can, or two.

So, when you don't breathe in, try to raise your head just enough, while avoiding 'disrupting' your strokes.

It's a little difficult for me to explain this in English... :o

Might seem a little weird but I imagined an air bubble under my armput when it was coming out of the water and so pointed my head in that direction to breath when doing free style :o

Yes, in fact, if you can turn your head 90 degrees, that's fine, and if you can turn your head less than that, using the trough of the water, it's even better :)

Btw, you don't have to open your mouth like an 'O' to breathe in, you can open just the part above the water surface... a little like a 'P'.

When trying to swim, I sink like a brick. Doesn't seem to matter what I do...

Lol Clough! :p

Don't take it like that... take the dead sea, you'll float there!

And if you get a good and nice teacher, I'm sure you'll learn quickly. Swimming is first a matter of floating, which becomes easy once you know what movements to do to keep afloat. From then, I'm sure that you'll want to learn diving. I so much like to go explore some of the coral reef and meet the fishes, and other animals there :)

Thanks for the tips unky... im determined to master freestyle,I'm jogging too,just to get some resistance training,damn legs can't go the distance and lungs instead of gills... but... I... will... succeed!

I trust you Red :) You'll just do fine!

Hello all!

Hello.

Hey Emop, how was grad?

Hey guys.
Was that red or am I seeing things? Dam wine gets me every time.

You people like to talk!

Hey guys.
Was that red or am I seeing things? Dam wine gets me every time.

You people like to talk!

Red wine? ;)

Hi, Sunny, Red, Bella, Emop, Clough, Bear, Unky and Cat. :D

Yes red wine.
Have you ever gone on a wine tasting?
Well last week I did and it was to fun.

Graduation hasn't happened yet. It's at 7 and it's only 3:50 here so far

Yes red wine.
Have you ever gone on a wine tasting?
Well last week I did and it was to fun.

I don't really drink, but I am glad you had fun. You deserve a good time.:D



Emop, I hope Graduation goes well. :)

I don't really drink, but I am glad you had fun. You deserve a good time.:D



Emop, I hope Graduation goes well. :)

Thanks! It's a miracle that I get to graduate. Kind of a scandal really. Haha

Hey hey sunny... I know I know,I'm a hound...

I'm here,beer in hand and ready to get jiggy.

hey hey sunny...i know i know,im a hound...

im here,beer in hand and ready to get jiggy.

Red! Hi there. I haven't seen you in yonks!

Red! Hi there. I haven't seen you in yonks!

Yonks and yonks.. alas,life took hold and I had to get down and dirty with the text books,it was rough,but I can say with hand on heart I gave it my best shot.

yonks and yonks..alas,life took hold and i had to get down and dirty with the text books,it was rough,but i can say with hand on heart i gave it my best shot.

So how'd you do?

So how'd you do?

Won't know until September, if I did well ill be telling the world!and drunk for a week,if I did bad,ill just be drunk for a week.

wont know untill september, if i did well ill be telling the world!and drunk for a week,if i did bad,ill just be drunk for a week.

Here's to telling the world then!

Question: I have heard the joke about Erin's version of Hell for decades... Does St. Patrick really hold you up by your heels in a barrel full of all the whiskey you've ever spilled?

Here's to telling the world then!

Question: I have heard the joke about Erin's version of Hell for decades... Does St. Patrick really hold you up by your heels in a barrel full of all the whiskey you've ever spilled?


If I end up in hell and I'm face down in a barrel of whiskey,ill send you a text!

How things with you? How are the dogs?

Lol Clough! :p

Don't take it like that... take the dead sea, you'll float there!

And if you get a good and nice teacher, I'm sure you'll learn quickly. Swimming is first a matter of floating, which becomes easy once you know what movements to do to keep afloat. From then, I'm sure that you'll want to learn diving. I so much like to go explore some of the coral reef and meet the fishes, and other animals there :)

Any suggestions for someone whose nose doesn't plug itself? If I don't hold my nose, then water goes up and I feel like I'm drowning. Even those nose plugs don't usually work.

Graduation hasn't happenned yet. it's at 7 and it's only 3:50 here so far

You're lucky. My graduation was in the middle of the afternoon, on the football field. There was a heat advisory out warning children and elderly to stay inside. They shortened the ceremony, to 3 hours, so we wouldn't all die of heat stroke.

I have no fond memories of my graduation. The only reason I went was because my mom made me.

Hey heath,how's edith and the new place?

I love it here. Plenty of room and lots of windows. Good neighbors. Within biking distance of pretty much everywhere I need to go.

All the kitties are great. I've actually started harness training spot and edith so I can take them outside. Spot's not too sure about the whole 'outside' thing and cries and begs to let back in. edith doesn't even notice the harness and just enjoys being allowed outside for the first time in more than 3 months.

Unky scared the daylights out of me this morning, though. Edith woke me up to feed them and I was just lying in bed cuddling all the kitties before getting up to fill the food dish. All of a sudden, unky made the loudest, most pain scream I have ever heard come out of an animal and bolted from the room.

I chased him down and tried to examine him. I finally ended up wrapping him in a towel and pinning him down. The entire time, he was screaming that terrible scream. One of his eyes was kind of goopy, so I cleaned it out. He's been fine ever since. He must've gotten something in his eye.

The worst part about the screaming, is that unky is a very quiet cat. He almost never makes a sound. Even when he and his siblings are play fighting, he usually just runs off if they play too rough. I think that's the first sound I've heard him make since they were mewling infants crying for milk.

Did you keep all the kittens heath?

Love the names!

Glad everything worked out for you,sounds like you have things in hand.

I'm only keeping two of them. The other 4 will be finding homes. I'm just hoping to get them fixed before I adopt them out. I want to at least get the girls fixed, since they're the ones that would actually end up having more cats.

There's edith, spot, and zoe that I'm keeping. Unky, alty-cat, aura, and mop will be getting new homes.

If you have a moment, take a look:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-member-discussions/know-little-late-memorial-day-but-simply-terrific-476132.html#post2379722

I thought that you were going to sleep early tonight, Stringer?

Hello! Morning here! :)

Hheath, if you can try to constantly blow with your nose, that should solve the problem. I never really did that until I learned to do somersaults with the wall of the pool. At the beginning, water would go in my nose and my! How they 'burned'!

Try blowing slowly with your nose instead of your mouth that should work. If you're going deeper, then, special masks are required, with the bottle of oxygen :) , or if you know how to do snorkeling, it'll be fine. I never learned how to use these under water though.

Hheath! Poor unky! :( Take good care of him. I don't want him to become one-eyed...

I just graduated *girly squeal*

Hey Emop! Congratulations! :)

So, how are you feeling? Excited? Relieved? Happy as can be?

Hey Emop! Congratulations! :)

So, how are you feeling? Excited? Relieved? Happy as can be?

Happy, excited, nostalgic, and anxious. (I have summer school still)

Ah! Enjoy your graduation, and don't slack off now, there are still some more to do. Don't give up! :)

Ah! Enjoy your graduation, and don't slack off now, there are still some more to do. Don't give up! :)

I won't. And it's easy now. I failed the first thing because it was all pop culture related projects. Not my thing. Read and analyze, like my summer course is, is my thing

Unky, I've tried that. I end up running out of air, then water goes up my nose and I drown. Not a huge deal. I don't go swimming much, anyway. I just wondered if you had any other suggestions.

Unky's fine. A few hours after it happened, that eye was just slightly less open than the other. It's fine now. Now even a little red.

It was just the most pain-filled gut-wrenching cry I have ever heard come out of an animal. It scared me and had my heart racing and lodged in my throat. I've heard cats who've gotten stepped on, shut in doors, had a chair leg land on a tail or paw, and any number of household mishaps. None of them even came close to the sound he made.

CONGRATS, EMOP!! What color were your robes? Are you planning on going to college? Did a lot of friends and family show up? Are you having a party?

CONGRATS, EMOP!!! what color were your robes? are you planning on going to college? did a lot of friends and family show up? are you having a party?
White. No. my boyfriend, parents, and brother. And no

Congrats emop! What's next now?

Congrats emop!! What's next now??

Summer school then working

Slowly hheath, you breath out with your nose slowly when you swim.

I wonder now... when exactly do you get water up your nose? Because in all of the four styles (freestyle, backstroke, breaststroke, butterfly) one can manage even without blowing water, to have a longer breath and go faster in competitions.

Try keeping your head horizontal when you swim.

Diving is another matter :)

My robes were white two. The boys had to wear maroon.

Are you planning on getting training or a certificate in something? Or taking a few years off before deciding what you're going to do?

Looks like all the important people showed up. Are there any pictures?

Are any friends having parties? Don't mind me, I just parties.

my robes were white two. the boys had to wear maroon.

are you planning on getting training or a certificate in something? or taking a few years off before deciding what you're going to do?

looks like all the important people showed up. are there any pictures?

are any friends having parties? don't mind me, i just parties.

The boys had to wear green.

I don't know yet. I'm going to do something. I need to get some education for a good job. Soon.

Tons! Dad has them for now though.

And a few friends are having parties

the boys had to wear green.

idk yet. I'm going to do something. I need to get some education for a good job. soon.

tons! dad has them for now though.

and a few friends are having parties

you'll have to share pictures when you can ^_^

you'll have to share pictures when you can ^_^

I will. But right now I only have prom pics

I will. but right now I only have prom pics

Share those. Share those. Share those *jumps up and down clapping hands*

|I want to see too, share, share, share!!

share those. share those. share those *jumps up and down clapping hands*

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I can't get them to work

I wanna slap him with his own penis!

This.

Is.

Awesome.

...

As long as I'm not the "him"...

I can't get them to work

If the files are too big to upload, try posting them to Facebook or photobucket then posting them here. That's what I have to do with my pictures.

if the files are too big to upload, try posting them to facebook or photobucket then posting them here. that's what i have to do with my pictures.

I tried Heath. I'll try again later. And my awesome boyfriend is with me today. Yay!

I tried Heath. I'll try again later. and my awesome boyfriend is with me today. yay!

You can also try a place called tinypic. Seems to work pretty good in most places. Just don't forget the URL because you can set a time limit as to how long they are on there.


TinyPic - Free Image Hosting, Photo Sharing & Video Hosting (http://www.tinypic.com)

Can I get a little help and input?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/active-members/help-letter-476775.html#post2380903

I just found the best break-up song, EVER!

YouTube - Pray for You - Jaron and The Long Road to Love :: Official Video (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=atBg9zLI2bA&feature=player_embedded)

i just found the best break-up song, EVER!

YouTube - Pray for You - Jaron and The Long Road to Love :: Official Video (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=atBg9zLI2bA&feature=player_embedded)

Got to admit that was cool... and kind of funny too... :)

Spot and zoe are currently trying to dig through a couple mirrors to get at the cats in them. Spot even tried looking underneath them. I love my goofball furbabies.

Argh, I suppose physically bashing some sense into someone's head is outside the remit on this forum:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregnancy-new-motherhood/16-getting-14-year-old-pregnant-476834.html

I'm having one of those, 'what's the world coming to - this country has gone to the dogs' moments.

Argh, I suppose physically bashing some sense into someone's head is outside the remit on this forum:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregnancy-new-motherhood/16-getting-14-year-old-pregnant-476834.html

I'm having one of those, 'what's the world coming to - this country has gone to the dogs' moments.


Hormones!

Argh, I suppose physically bashing some sense into someone's head is outside the remit on this forum:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregnancy-new-motherhood/16-getting-14-year-old-pregnant-476834.html

I'm having one of those, 'what's the world coming to - this country has gone to the dogs' moments.

The scariest part is she mentions the "first time" she might have gotten pregnant.

And I have to end my horrible night with THAT!! Too many babies having babies. I wish she could have visited me at work last night. She would have changed her mind as soon as she saw the fetal demise of the 17 year old patient I had.

J, I don't know how you do it,I would be a terrible nurse,id probably just cry my way through a shift.

Most shifts are happy, but every once in a while we get a baby who has either passed in the womb, or is slowly passing. Last night was the worst of the worst... I sit here drinking a beer to relax because of it.

After 2 years of this, this is the first time I have experienced this particular situation. I have to get it off my chest, but don't want to be a downer, you know.

How do you deal with situations like that?

What do you say?

( I'm saying that out loud to myself)

How you deal personally,I can't imagine.

It's hard Reddy. To tell a 17 year old that she is going to have a baby, but the baby is not going to live is HARD.

What do I say? That's hard too. Each delivery is different. This one, for example, the baby may live for a few minutes, to an hour, outside of the womb, but there is no lung tissue to speak of. The baby can't breathe.

We have to tell them the truth, no sugar coating. I guess that is why I am so straight forward here. Mom was only 20 weeks pregnant, too early for viability. We have to tell them what to expect. No crying; eyes fused; can't really tell the sex; no possible way to save it's life.

We encourage them to call their religious leader (pastor, priest, etc), if they have one. Keep visitors to a minimum, keep them full of pain meds.

How do I deal personally? I cry. I cry with my patients. I don't hide it. I have to keep in mind that this was meant to happen, but why we will never know.

God, it hurts. It hurts to watch these women go through this when I can come home and hug my children. And then I get so pi$$ed off when these little 14 year olds think that they want a baby because the baby will love them unconditionally, or they THINK they are in love. What I wouldn't give to bring them to work with me.

Its good that you have such empathy for the mothers J,that's what makes you good at your job,that's what they will remember when the dust settles,in their grief when they speak of the worst experience of their lives,the way you helped will help the healing.

I remember a nurse in ICU when my daughter dying,she was so kind and gentle with me,ill never forget her,she is so much apart of that time.

The women you helped last night will remember you too,you gave her a gentle hand and you were honest with her in a dark time.