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    AHSFB33 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    May 15, 2007, 02:57 PM
    I want her back, bad!
    :(

    So me and this girl have been dating for a while, and it didn't take long before we fell in love. We both cared about each other very much, and respect each other very much. Despise that her aunt doesn't think we should date, she said she loved me. About a week ago, she sounded upset. I asked her what was wrong, she said she wanted to take a break. I agreed, but I held back some tears, I was afraid to lose her, she then promised me that we'd go back out, and I had to agree, she was trying to bring her grades up, and all I could do was say "ok". But now, we talk a little, and we see each other at church twice a week. She still messes with me the way we did when we went out. I feel weird about this, she can get away with flirting with me, and not feel bad that we aren't together. I'm upset, I've cried a few nights, and I told her, yet I'm not seeing this get any better. Every time I try to talk to her about how I feel, she says "i dont wanna talk about that right now". All I see is this going nowhere, I have no idea when she will take me back. Some of my friends told me to play hard to get, so she'd miss me so much, that we'd go back out. All I can do is sit here and wonder what to do, I want her back so bad.

    She crawls in my skin, and swims through my blood. It's so different without her, and yet all I can say is that I miss her.

    Help me!

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    May 15, 2007, 03:34 PM
    Hey boyyy! Mmkay.. so you should pray about this as well.. but you need to just go with the flow && see where life takes you two.. everyone has a destiny && if this was meant to be.. it will happen.. && if it wasn't, there will be plenty of other fish in the sea.. remember, god places problems in our lives to teach us lessons [whether we feel that we need them or not] && if you two were truly meant to be.. god will bring you two together, if you're not, then you'll have other opportunities that he'll show you a little later
    But all I know is that god feels it's time for you to learn something.. && now he's making you learn it since you obviously haven't on your own, so once you learn whatever he's trying to teach you.. things should go back to the way he wants them to be

    Remember: everything happens for a reason && u need to learn from this && then move on.. && your my best guy friend && it kills me when you talk about how you were crying at night && such.. && I just want to see you happy!!
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    May 16, 2007, 06:56 AM
    Relax, I think its just as simple as doing as she is told, and that's to bring her grades up, and not hang with you so much until she does. She doesn't need any extra pressure from you right now, as she has enough with her grades. Ask her if you can study with her. As long as she is treating you the same you need to understand, she has other obligations to take care of.

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