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corrie · May 3, 2007, 02:58 PM

Hi everyone,

I am currently doing this course over the past 3 months. At the beginning of the course I met this guy and we just connected or clicked as one might say, it was lovely. Towards the end of the evening we accidentally met each other and he wanted to walk with me to the station however someone cam along and started chatting to me and we never got talking. Although we connected I felt there was also an akwardsness because we both were attracted to each other. I met him again about 2 weeks later and again because of the size of class we did not get to speak, all I could do was say hello to him and he back to me because he was speking to someone else. 5 weeks have passed and I have not seen him at the class. I would like to get in touch and there is possibility a chance that I might be able to get his contact details such an e-mail address and just say "hi M, How are things, haven't seen you in class recently, how is the course going for you? But does this make me look desperate, please advise?

lmnotok · May 3, 2007, 11:45 PM

How can it be desperate when you guys didn't even talk? C'mon, don't be afraid, do what you want to do.

Krs · May 4, 2007, 12:04 AM

I suppose you are mature adults seeing as you are doing a course. I assume you are in your 20's..
Go for it, what have you got to lose, if he don't reply then at least you tried but if he does then hey - bonus ;)

talaniman · May 4, 2007, 05:48 AM

From your other post I would say go for it, but go slow and be friendly, instead of seeing every man as a love interest. Also from reading your other posts I think you're a little to desperate for a real relationship honestly, and think building interest through dialogue and good times would serve you much better.

corrie · May 4, 2007, 10:47 AM

Right thanks for your responses, it has been most helpful

ceriphante · May 4, 2007, 01:18 PM

You go get him gurrrrrrrrrrrl ;)

CaptainRich · May 4, 2007, 01:40 PM

Originally Posted by talaniman

From your other post I would say go for it, but go slow and be friendly, instead of seeing every man as a love interest. Also from reading your other posts I think your a little to desperate for a real relationship honestly, and think building interest thru dialogue and good times would serve you much better.

I agree fully. Getting to "connect" in something you both are interested in first is a very cruicle building block. If you can smile and talk freely about your interests and yourselves, the "relationship" will happen.