[hellomate]

Back in September my girlfreind came over one night and decided that she wanted to go on break... I was blown away cause I didn't not see it coming. We had some minor problems and arguments but nothing out of the ordinary. I wasn't sure what was going on or why it was happening and I continued to try to find out which never really got me anywhere. For a while we weren't talking as much. Around Christmas we started hanging out more, basically like how things were when we were together, except she was shaky about making out and being intimate. In march we decided to go out again, because she was saying how she wanted to be with me and how she wanted everything to work out. However, when we were together again, it just didndt feel right, I still felt distant from her. I was afraid to kiss her, hold her hand fearing shed pull away. We lost our virginities to each other, but she's always kind of seemed freaked out about sex. Now I can't even tell if she's into making out.
So after a month she brought up our relationship and said she felt some of those feelings were missing suggesting another break. We talked for two days about it and I agreed not knowing what else to try. After a couple of days I realized a break wasn't going to get us anywhere so I decided to tell her I can't deal with her uncertainty, I want to be in a relationship with her. I basically said you won't have to worry about hearing from me, you'll get all the space and time you want. Whenever you're ready call me and well talk.


But now I want to be with her so badly, I don't want another girl. I feel like she still wants to be with me, but doesn't want to regret getting back together. I don't know if I should just forget her and move on or just hang out and if she calls back takeit from there.

[sypher373]

Why can't you move on and if she calls take it from there?