[B1234]

My boyfriend and I had sex on Sunday... it is now Monday. We didn't use a condom but... he swears he did not skeet iside of me. Ive read that guys can feel it when they are about to inside a girl and I also read you can get pregnant from pre-skeet. Im scared out of my mind that I'm pregnant. I don't think I am but id like a second opinion. Member I am 14 years old this is a huge deal. Please answer asap HELP!! I can't ask my parents for birth control because they will make me live with someone else. I want some stanger to get it for me I don't care who does. I don't think I'm pregnant but I want to be 100% sure

[eldowchay]

I understand you are worried. We were all there at one point in time. If you are seriously concerned you may want to begin using birth control.

As for now, try to remain calm until you normally have your period. Heightened emotions and stress can delay periods too. If you get your period you, of course, aren't pregnant. You can always call Planned Parenthood if you have other questions.

[buggage]

First of all, your parents making you live with someone else wouldn't be the answer, as you would continue to do the same actions, no matter where you lived, and you would most likely see it as an opportunity to do it even more, as you wouldn't be under your parents home anymore. Since you are having sex at such a young age, and it doesn't sound like you are going to stop any time soon, you NEED to take responsibility. You should be scared out of your mind that you will get pregnant, as you are doing nothing to prevent it, and you are very young. I would hope that it would scare you enough to stop until you ARE protected, and you ARE doing all that you can to prevent not only pregnancy, but STDs as well.(even if your partner tells you they don't have anything, or you think you don't have anything, it doesn't mean that you don't. Many things take weeks, months even years to show up. Doesn't mean you aren't still carrying it around, so be responsible and AT LEAST wear a condom.) You need to sit down with your parents(at least your mom), tell them that you are having sex,and that you want to be responsible by using birth control. Trust me, most parents really aren't so oblivious that they won't know SOMETHING is going on. You would rather them find out you are having sex, but doing it responsibly, then them finding out that you didn't take responsible actions, and got pregnant,and/or stds. Second of all, it doesn't matter if he releases inside you or not. The pull out method is the WORST method someone can use as a way of avoiding pregnancy. Many a baby have been conceived with the pull out method. This is because there is sperm in the pre-, of which the men(or women) can NOT feel when it is released. If you are not going to go to your parents with this, then you can go to planned parenthood, and they can work with you on a payment plan on getting birth control, and keep it confidential. Using birth control as well as condoms are the best route. And both of them are LESS expensive then a sickness, or baby would be in the long run.