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    Nov 6, 2016, 04:08 PM
    Do you think it's worth mentioning to someone you loved them a while ago?
    Back in 1991 I was in love with a guy who I still havd contact with.Of coarse we don't see each other often .He lives 7 hours away.Last time I saw him was two yrs ago and we hooked up.Just out of a texf conversation yesterday I mentioned to him that I was in love with him in "91". He asked how come I didn't tell him then.
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    Nov 6, 2016, 05:08 PM
    What was the point and what did you expect to happen after revealing this information?
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    Nov 6, 2016, 05:52 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    What was the pointat did you expect to happen after revealing this information?
    It just cane out on conversation.Really nothing I just let it be known cause we were talking.We just friends so I shared
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    Nov 6, 2016, 05:54 PM
    You already told him, so why ask? It's done. 'Worth mentioning' isn't meaningful anyway. It either means something to HIM or it doesn't.
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    Nov 6, 2016, 06:27 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by joypulv View Post
    You already told him, so why ask? It's done. 'Worth mentioning' isn't meaningful anyway. It either means something to HIM or it doesn't.
    For your info he said I should hsve told him.
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    Nov 6, 2016, 06:37 PM
    You should have told him then. You didn't. You told him now and it's a little too late. What's done is done.
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    Nov 6, 2016, 06:43 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by lisa1471 View Post
    It just cane out on conversation.Really nothing I just let it be known cause we were talking.We just friends so I shared
    So what difference does it make then?
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    Nov 6, 2016, 06:49 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    So what difference does it make then?
    Did you see where I said it was just conversation.thats like you having talk with a friend and you say by the way remember when we got out of school well it was me that did blahhh.it was planned it was conversation
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    Nov 6, 2016, 08:10 PM
    So exactly what is your question then?

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