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Apr 8, 2014, 03:45 AM
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How to convince my mother for my marriage
I am Hindu Brahmin girl. I am loving muslim guy. Both our families are not interested in this marriage. Now the boy family is ready for this marriage. But problem with my family. In family my father and brother and some of my relatives are partially said OK of this marriage. Partially OK means they are do this marriage and at any cause I shouldn't come back to my family. But my big problem is my mother. She s not at all agreeing. I tried to convience her all ways but nothing got worked out. 5 years gone. Still she s same. I asked one reason for not to marry that guy. She is telling her gut feeling telling and astrologer told I won't live happy life for long duration. So she not ready for this marriage. Because of her everything getting delayed. My guy planning to go US by may. I want to convience my mom before that. Please help me if you know some solution.
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Apr 8, 2014, 04:01 AM
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I think you should convince your mother to at least visit the guy's family once before reaching at any conclusion. It so happens that parents have some preconceined notions about different religions, but once they meet and mingle with each other, they will get to know each other better. All the best!
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Apr 8, 2014, 04:08 AM
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My mother not ready to meet that guy and his family cause they are Muslims. If my mom get convienced then I am ready to arrange the meeting by the way both the families. I have to change my mom gut feeling thought and wrong impression about muslims.
 Originally Posted by new_mom
I think you should convince your mother to at least visit the guy's family once before reaching at any conclusion. It so happens that parents have some preconceined notions about different religions, but once they meet and mingle with each other, they will get to know each other better. All the best!
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Apr 8, 2014, 04:46 AM
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I think your mother has very good reason to be opposed to this. I'm guessing HE isn't willing top convert to your religion...but you can be certain you will be pressured to give up your own to do it his way.
Sorry.....true love doesn't work that way.
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Apr 8, 2014, 05:07 AM
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You have loved him for 5 years ? It is not going to change,
Your options, marry him anyway.
Or find someone else.
Just waiting is not going to change anything.
Your mothers concerns will not change. You have to chose, doing nothing is just going to waste your and his life.
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Apr 8, 2014, 05:14 AM
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I am planning to marry him now with his parents blessings. But I am still waiting is there any chances to change in this 2 weeks. My guy want my parents partial acceptance for this marriage.
 Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck
You have loved him for 5 years ? It is not going to change,
Your options, marry him anyway.
Or find someone else.
Just waiting is not going to change anything.
Your mothers concerns will not change. You have to chose, doing nothing is just going to waste your and his life.
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