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    Suetlana Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 28, 2014, 03:17 PM
    Please somebody help me I'm confused he's playing with my mind
    I met this guy on a site a month ago. He's 30 and I'm 24 nearly.We actually click on the first time we talk, but the only problem is sometimes he act like a child. But anyway on our 2nd date I had a few drinks and I really felt comfortable with him that I didn't want the night to end, and we ended up in a Hotel before you judge me just to let you guys know is that am not that sort of girl I feel pretty much guilty about it. But anyway the next day I told him that it's best for us to stop talking as I'm actually falling for you and I know at the end ill end up Hurt with you and his answer was just 'fine' and I know I freaked out I should have never said this to him I apologise to him and he also. And tonight I wanted to clear things with him saying that please don't get me wrong I don't go round and do those stuff with people and his answer was OK. And I told him you got me wrong don't misunderstand me and he's like OK. I got upset and said bye to him and he said OK? What is wrong with him, why can't he be more nice, I really want a serious relationship with him not a f... ship.
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    Jan 28, 2014, 03:30 PM
    He got what he wanted. A booty call. He's just clearly not as into you as you are into him for reasons only he knows. This is a guy telling you this.
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    Jan 28, 2014, 03:56 PM
    You sleep with him on the second date, tell him you're falling for him after knowing him (online mostly) a month. You tell him "let's end this" then change your mind. He sees you as a flake and he does not want to be bothered. He got in your pants so what else would he want from you?
    He's not playing with your mind, you're not using your head. Leave the guy alone. He does not take you seriously. He has no reason to.
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    Jan 28, 2014, 05:51 PM
    Harshness Warning!!!!!!!!!
    It's not him its YOU. What do you expect from a guy when you act like a flake and freak out? I mean he said OK and agreed with everything you said. That wasn't nice enough for you?

    Chill and check yourself. Obviously after a few drinks you ARE that type of girl. Your words and actions don't match.

    You need to relax and be cool, calm, and collected, and in control of yourself, so you can do better. It's you playing the mind games with YOURSELF.

    Sorry.

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