[donkhan]

Hi I would like get acess to my wife's Facebook to check messages and comments which she is hiding from me. Also like to see her friends list.

[Fr_Chuck]

Easy, just ask her for her passcode.

Seriously there is no legal way for you to do this. She is a ex wife, you need to just unfriend her and not go back to her page and stop worrying about what she may or may not be doing on some silly web site.

[ScottGem]

First, I moved your question from The forum you posted to. That forum was for questions about Microsoft Access the database program. Nothing to do with your question.

Second, I don't know where you are, but it is illegal in most places to access a computer network without permission. So it would be unethical for us to help you even if we knew how.

Third, if you trust your wife so little, you have bigger problems. Any marriage is based largely on trust. Once trust goes out the window, the relationship rarely has long to survive.

[Cat1864]

She is your wife. You talk with her. Just because she is your wife and you do not trust her doesn't mean she gives up her privacy.

Communicate with her and, if there are difficulties in the marriage, discuss Marriage counseling to work them out. Work on ways to build a stronger and healthier relationship.

If that isn't an option then discuss dissolving the marriage.

Once trust is gone it is very difficult to get back whether it is by the appearance of inappropriate behavior or invading privacy to get evidence.

edited to add: If you are a member of Facebook, you would be in violation of their terms of service by trying to access her account: "You will not solicit login information or access an account belonging to someone else." https://www.facebook.com/legal/terms

[slesiuk]

On Facebook they have a feature where your wife can hide certain information from everyone and that would include you . If Facebook worries you maybe to can ask her if both of you can cancel your accounts .

[Catsmine]

Quite simple, actually. Have your divorce attorney ask hers for printouts.

[smoothy]

You ask her.....if she says get stuffed.....give up on it. You actually don't have a right to it.

[joypulv]

As Miss Manners says, just because you are married doesn't mean you get to use each other's towel.

If she is hiding her Facebook from you, then I suspect that you have been mistrusting and controlling. Just the fact that you are here asking how to get into her account is a sign that she had good reason to hide it from you in the first place.

[MommaJoe2]

Let her go!! Obviously, you are suspect of her relationships with other people... And, she obviously doesn't want to ease those suspicions. Time to either see a counselor or an attorney!