[jane18dean]

Okay, so my LMP was 10/10/13 and lasted about 5 days. My periods aren't perfect but definitely come every month.. . Pretty much a 28 day cycle give or take a few days.

I had been hanging out/talking to someone for a little bit and had sex with that person on 10/23/13 and we didn't use a condom but he pulled out. The rest of the times we had sex after that we used condoms, then me and that person stopped talking on 10/27/13 because both of us weren't ready for a relationship.

11/1/13, 11/2/13, and 11/3/13 I had sex with three different guys once on each day. (I am not proud of this but it was a rough time for me and I definitely regret it). Pull out method was used on all three times (which I'm also not proud of) but on 11/3/13 at about 8:00 PM my brother took me and got me a Plan B Pill which I took immediately after I bought.
On the package it says take within 72 hours which I did so I was hoping it covered all three of those days.

My next period was supposed to start about 11/8-9/13 or somewhere in there according to my last period but it never showed. Around the 17th or 18th I started feeling nauseous in the mornings, tired, moody, sore breasts and on the 25th or 26th I took a pregnancy test and it came up positive in bold lines in about 5 seconds. I took 2 more tests that night which both came up positive.

On 12/2/13, my mom and I went to the doctor and they tested me and it came up positive also and they said according to my LMP I was about 8 weeks. I asked them about when I conceived and the doctor said according to my LMP I would've conceived anywhere from 10/19/13 to 10/24/13. That would make the first guy I talked about, the father (Which I am really really hoping).

On 12/12/13 I went to my OBGYN and got an ultrasound done and was told I was 7 weeks 6 days along. That didn't make sense according to my LMP I was supposed to be almost 9 weeks along. When I did the math and asked my OBGYN, she said that the ultrasound is very accurate and that according to it I conceived 10/31/13 through 11/3/13. That would mean the first guy would be out of the question and make the three other guys whom I want nothing to do with, the possible candidates.

I don't understand because I took the Plan B Pill in enough time that it should've cleared those three times. Me and the first guy are dating again and have been since I found out I was pregnant because I thought he was the father according to my LMP. Is there ANY possible way HE could still be the father even though the ultrasound is pointing towards the other guys. My OBGYN told me that all babies are the same size up until about 16 weeks and that would make the ultrasound pretty accurate.

I'm scared out of my mind. I want it to be his. None of the other guys are ever going to want a part of the child's life if it's theirs.

If there is any doctor, OBGYN, or something who could reply to this it would be much appreciated. I need professional advice!
My question is, is there any possible way it could be the first guy's baby?

- WORRIED

[J_9]

Unfortunately, you will have to have all 4 men tested after the baby is born. There is no way to determine paternity during pregnancy aside from an amniocentesis, which a doctor will not do strictly for paternity purposes because of the risks to both mother and baby.

[jane18dean]

So does that mean there is a possibility that he could be the father or probably not?

[J_9]

There is a possibility that he could be the father, but there is a possibility that any of the three other guys could be the father as well.

[ScottGem]

As accurate as the ultrasound is it can still be off. Anyone you had sex with since your LMP until you missed your period could be the father. There will be no way to tell until the child is born and you have a DNA test done.

Now you may be lucky and it is the man you want it to be. So test him first, and if its him you don't have to look further. If not, you will need to test the other three.

I know you don't want lectures, but sex is not a recreational sport. If you jump into bed at a whim, this is the consequences.

[Fr_Chuck]

Conception dating is an educated guess, while they are close, they can be a week off ( give or take) so it really means that any of these men could be the father.

1. pull out does not work, there is plenty of sperm in the early fluid. So why you consider that a valid method is beyond me.

2. the morning after pill. It is not 100 percent effective. And it gets less and less effective the longer you go from the sexual date.

So it may be 95 percent effective at 24 hours, but only 50 percent effective at 60 hours.

It has little effect after the 72 hour period.

So by taking on day three ( or was it four? ) the sex with the first day would have been much less effective.

So when baby is born, you will get DNA tests done to find out who it was .