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    Sep 30, 2013, 05:52 PM
    Quick! Is this to clingy? Will it ruin it?
    I texted a guy about something that was going on in town and he continued to talk to me about other things. I always liked him and at first I just thought he was being a pain in the butt because he just kept teasing with me instead of giving me the information I needed. Any how our conversation got to be more intimate and we confessed we liked each other and while we did that we made over the text passes at each other if you know what I mean, like flirt. I am 17 and he is 19 so he was a little nervous about the age difference. But he say we could text, quote on quote. This was 5 days ago. I want to text him now, but I don't want to be to clingy. I will see him Saturday. Should I wait, or go for it and give him a text? Please help!
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    Sep 30, 2013, 06:01 PM
    Will it ruin what? Did he stop texting you?
    Wait until you see him and see what happens.
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    Sep 30, 2013, 06:09 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Will it ruin what? Did he stop texting you?
    Wait until you see him and see what happens.
    No we just got off the phone at like midnight and he didn't want me to go. I just wanted to know if I texted him 5 days later, would that be to clingy and annoying.I meant ruin his feelings for me.
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    Sep 30, 2013, 06:34 PM
    If texting him ruins his feelings for you, then he never had any to begin with, especially 5 days later.
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    Sep 30, 2013, 06:36 PM
    Well if you are talking to him on the phone, what is the big deal about texting him?
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    Sep 30, 2013, 06:42 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Well if you are talking to him on the phone, what is the big deal about texting him?
    I'm sorry I meant texting. But thanks for your advice!
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    Sep 30, 2013, 06:42 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    If texting him ruins his feelings for you, then he never had any to begin with, especially 5 days later.
    That's a good point! Thank you for the advice!
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