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    Aug 16, 2013, 12:03 AM
    Desperate
    Well I have recently fallen for a girl at first she was dating a friend while that was going on I was crushing on her but out of a sudden my friend left her for some one else I've done my best to get her but she says she not ready for a relationship and if I can just wait I feel that I get closer to her everyday I'm at the point were she tells me she cares and sends me kisses but I don't know what I should do any advise would really help
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    Aug 16, 2013, 03:48 AM
    Is she saying 'if you can just wait' or are you saying that to yourself? Big difference.

    RULE: Never jump in when someone is on the rebound. Be patient. Just be 'there' and available but don't push it.
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    Aug 16, 2013, 06:42 AM
    You are sounding desperate and that is not attractive. You don't just pounce on a girl after she has broken up with someone. She has already told you what to do. Wait!
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    Aug 16, 2013, 07:30 AM
    How ole are you?
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    Aug 16, 2013, 07:45 AM
    Your friend just broke up with her, and now you want to jump into relationship.

    She wants to wait, and if you act too desperate it will just chase her away.
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    Aug 16, 2013, 07:52 AM
    This sounds middle school'ish. Desperate is not attractive at any age.
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    Aug 16, 2013, 08:03 AM
    Exactly Oliver. Sounds like middle school.
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