[TymeIsTicking]

So I dated this girl for 8 months. Everything was fine until my ex got in the way. When we first started hanging out my ex showed up at my door. I didn't know what to do so I took my ex home and left current girlfriend there. I know that sounds bad but I didn't want trouble. As the couple months moved on my ex was still posting that we were together and kept our photo up. My current girlfriend got confused and we talked things through. Down the road she cheated on me but I gave her a chance out of heart. She didn't look back since. Last month my ex again showed up at the door. I got so mad that I made girlfriend walk outside. I took ex home and freaked at her. Came back and got my girlfriend. Well last Friday she broke up with me because an old rumor. Tuesday the old ex confessed everything. That we were not together for 10 months and she was only trying to make my life hell. So cady the current one took me back on Tuesday morning. We hung out that night. But it wasn't the same. We pulled in my garage and she peaked out the door. I knew she was looking for my ex. We got into my place but she was acting awkward. Not hugging or anything. So I asked and she said second thoughts again. Come Wednesday morning she broke up with me. Said she still loved me and cared for me. But she wanted a couple weeks at least. She also said she wanted some freedom. Well this is why I'm here because what does that mean? I gave her plenty of space now I still text a little but not much. I care and love her a lot. I don't care what happened I want her back. What do I do?

[odinn7]

What do you do... you get prepared for the fact that she may not come back.

One of two things happened here... if not both combined...

1) She got fed up with the drama that you allowed to be caused by your ex.

2) She met someone else that has no (or less) drama and no stalking ex.

As I said, it could be both. First, you handled the situation with the ex incredibly poorly. She probably saw that and was having second thoughts at that point. Then when it continued, she probably really started to believe something was going on but also decided that even if there was nothing going on, why should she be involved in all of this?

So like I said... prepare yourself for the fact that she might not come back. If she does, and you care for her, you need to grow a set and make sure your ex doesn't keep showing up.