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    Jun 24, 2013, 07:07 PM
    Should I move on or try to get her back?
    Well, just two days ago I broke with my girl because she would never make time for me. Our relationship was a long distance relationship.

    Before she and I couldn't be a day without talking to each other. Everything was perfect, we were super happy. However, at the 3rd month we broke up for the first time because we didn't have enough time to talk. I made it up to her and we started talking more.

    Then two months later, she we started talking less. Every time I asked why do you put things over me, she would reply "I am not going to answer that". And even up to now she still doesn't make time for me.

    She prefers spending time with her friends than talk to me. When she spends time with her friends, she can be an entire day with them and will not bother try to talk to me.

    I tell her that it hurts me when when we don't talk much or it hurts me when she ignores me for her friends. She always says that she cares for me and she didn't mean to hurt me, but yet she still does the same thing. I care a lot about her. She means everything to me and I mean everything to her too, but she still doesn't make time for me.

    I broke up with her cause she didn't make time for me, but I want her back. Is there a chance of her changing back since she says she likes me a lot and cares about me a lot
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    Jun 25, 2013, 04:27 PM
    I think you have excessive expectations of a relationship. My parents have been married for 54 years and there are many times one or the other is busy on business or spending a day with friends, on a project or errands, and don't make time for each other. You have to maintain a lids of your own. She shouldn't be in touch with you when she's busy with other people, and even an expectation to talk every day is too much.

    You do your thing, she dies hers and you touch base in between and make a priority for visits and dates when you are long distance. But you don't own her or her schedule.

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