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    jax 10 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 19, 2013, 06:45 PM
    Want to fix it.
    Ok her and I were together 4 years. We parted for 6 months due to my jail time. A month later she was pregnant. I found out she was sleeping around anyhow the child was mine. As time went on we began to fight a lot and I we abused Xanax which made me act out. Later she ended up getting a DUI 4 months pregnant. We stayed together and cleared things up. The whole 4 years she never worked. I went on to buy her a house and a huge ring.

    Anyhow a couple more outbursts occurred and she filed for support and left and didn't to let me see my kid all along. It was OK to be party buddies. Meanwhile she's back in an alcoholic house. I know my wrongs, she refuses to speak. I go to consoling and taking her to court but would rather not. Just want to be a family.

    Can I make her talk? The pain is every day all day. She's 23, I'm 40. I just feel if we stuck through it we could fix this. I am just becoming spiteful as she continues to stonewall me. It hurts.
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    Jun 19, 2013, 07:21 PM
    She can fix nothing but herself so back off and let her. Can't you see she needs to fix herself before anything good can happen. Use this time to fix YOU.

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