[lexuzzlex]

Ok, so I meet this guy. We hung out for a week. Everything in common. He agreed also so we started dating for about a week. I meet his daughter, he meet my son, amazing week.

Then I started going through things. Lost my mother out of state. She passed away. As soon as I found out I told him I wasn't ready to be with someone. It was only a matter of time before I left the state. I didn't want to hurt him end of phone conversation.

He kept texting me saying this was bull. Change your mind. I think I'm in love with you. I waited a day and realized I made a mistake. Now he's acting like he don't want me back. Barely texts me. Its been a week since the phone call break up. On my end I want him back. What can I text him to text me or want me back or want to come see me?

[Oliver2011]

First of all jumping head and feet into a relationship quickly is frought with problems. You can't be in love after a week. You can be in infatuation, but not in love.

Anytime we say something like "I told him I wasn't ready to be with someone" we need to be ready for any type of response. Sometimes we say those things to see what response we get back. We want a better response than rejection, but rejection can truly be one of the many responses that could come.

You two do not have the luxury of a foundation that being with someone for years develops. Your foundation after a week is very shakey. So maybe he saw you as wishy washy and that may not be what he wants.

You don't have a lot of time invested so move on. But learn from this. Learn that you need to move things slowly in a relationship so that you get to know that person and build that foundation. But also learn that anytime you make a statement like you did, or ask a question, the person has the right to respond however he wants to. And it may not be the response you were hoping for.

[talaniman]

You dumped him on impulse so can you blame him for leaving a stranger of a week alone? Take your chances and send him a message saying "I made a huge mistake, please call." and then see what happens.

[Handyman2007]

First thing. Talk to each other instead of texting each other. Texting is so impersonal. You lost your mother. That should be your first concern. Once you have all of that settled, and he and you are still interested in each other then make a decision. Let me tell you a story. I was diagnosed with Leukemia in September of 2010. In February (in the middle of my treatments) my father became terminally ill. He lived 400 miles from me. ON my doc tor's advice, I went and stayed with Mom and Dad for a month until he passed away and Mom was situated . I went back and forth for 6 months getting everything settled. My relationship with my girlfriend AND my cancer treatment were put on the back burner until my FAMILY was taken care of. I restarted my cancer treatment about 7 months after Dad passed away and so far, so good.
Your family comes first. You can always find a new beau. One week is not long enough to responsibly decide that someone is in love. Take care of your business. If this man is any kind of a man, he will allow you to do that without putting pressure on you about the relationship.

[Fr_Chuck]

I agree, it is a telephone for god's sake, call and talk to him.

Next you told him, that it was over, so most likely he will think you may change mind again. It has only been week, you should not be meeting children even in a month, or making that serioius idea

[lexuzzlex]

OK so... I did take care of my moms passing and I believe in love at first sight so I believe that someone can be in love after a week also he works 12-14 hours a day as a cable man so texting is better then picking up the phone because of him dealing with customers so... I texted him last night this is how the texts went
Me: hey
Him: hey
Me: watcha doing
Him: helping my supervisors do end of the month paperwork u?
Me: bored out of my mind watching TV
Him: liking Comcast better ?
Me: hell yeah better then that wow sucky cable we had lol made me just think of that funny cable video you showed me
Him: haha I've been at work since 645am
Me: damn I know your crazy sleepy
Him: I'm wore out worked till 730 now doing paperwork
Me: awwww poor baby sorry to hear that
Him : sux
Me: I know I'm going to be up all night that sux too
Him : y
Me: because I wasn't feeling good last night so I was up all night then slept all day now I am wide awake

Then got into some weird sexting conversation

Then he said he was tired I said get some sleep that was that then I texted him in the morning saying hey no response so waited for a wile and sent this text

Hey I've been thinking I know I ended things and a bad impulse so I don't really blame you for leaving me alone but I'm telling you I made a mistake I guess I keep texting you because I can't get you out of my head and keep thinking will go back but truth is it probably won't I will leave you be if that's what you want and move on I know you think I'm wishy washy and back and forth I truly am sorry for what I did you are a amazing guy and any girl that gets you is one lucky yes I called her a because it isn't going to be me good luck I love you and wish you would change your mind and see how truly sorry and amazing I am OK this is my last text unless you don't want it to be bye sweet sweet man




So...
OK he didn't text me back after that I fell like I ed up after I sent that what should I do

[Oliver2011]

Wow you put yourself out there. It is possible he is seeing you as a little bit needy and maybe he doesn't want to jump in completely. If he doesn't respond to that text, I would give him some space. Honestly speaking if I had someone texting me that after just a week or whatever, I would think twice. But that is just me.

[lexuzzlex]

Your right maybe that did sound a little bit needy but he's the one after I broke it off with him was telling me he loves me and how he wanted me back he sounded needy but u think I should just give him his space ?

[Oliver2011]

If he doesn't reply to that text or doesn't initiate another conversation - absolutely give him space as in no contact.

It is more important that you learn from this. You are too attached - borderline obsessed with someone you barely know. It isn't healthy.

[lexuzzlex]

I'm deff not obsessed lol just like him a lot I can just talk to him he makes me happy and smile but thank you I will give him his space