[Simran-patil]

Hi
I am living in uk, I came to uk after my marriage on depandant visa.
I am married from 19 month. I love my husband , he is loving and carring, but... :(, we also have 9 minth old baby.
He hate my family, he doesn't speak with my family, and don't want that I bring my baby with me to meet my parents, he clearly has told me if I will go to meet my parents, then I can't enter anymore in this house.
My in law don't let me to speak with my grand parents too, and my husband is with them, ( he is manma's boy). I have't spoken with my grand parents since I got married. I sacrifies just for my husband,
And after my baby was born they also told me that I can't speak with my parents too, first I sacrifice for my love, my husband but... Now I am tired I don't want to libe life like.
For me best life partener is who , accept you and love your family as he/ she loves his/her own.
I did my best to save my martiage but now I want that my husband accept my family. Why he can't accept my family as I accepted his.
When I ask him that I would liketo go to france to meet my family with my kid( and if you don't want it is ok) he don't let me . He insult me, speak with hight voice. I am with low self esteme so I always say OK but now I want to go to meet my family, I wish to speak with my grand parents.
My family live out of uk, they live in germany, I don' thave my baby visa for germany, she was born in uk,
As my daughter is depant on my husband , but we have't applied for her uk visa, she needs uk visa just if she needs to go out of uk.
The problem is, how can I bring my baby to germany, if I don't have her german visa , they can't give her german visit visa too if she doesn't has uk visa. If I go to women shelter , can they help me?
I am tired from my life , if I leave him , I don't want to lose my baby, I have already sacrifise a lot I can't sacrifice my baby for him
Pla advice me what to do.
He is not appling for her uk visa too.
Just for your inf I have germant permanent visa not german passport,my parents are not able to come to uk because of fainancial problema


( sorry for english mistakes)