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    kitty131496 Posts: 18, Reputation: 0
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    Apr 11, 2013, 09:55 PM
    Older boyfriend!
    Hey guys well I have an older boyfriend and I don't know if he is fully there for me as I am for him... I am 16 years old and he is 37. And before you say anything, YES, I know it's bad to be with a guy that age many people tell me he is just using me for pics and all he wants from me is my body me and him been friends for over a year we just started dating 6 months ago and I love him more than anything and yes I know some people say I am too young to understand love.

    Well he is my everything I would do anything for this man but everyone tells me he don't love me like he says that I am just something for him to do when he is bored. It hurts me a lot I don't know what to do I'm so confused maybe you can give me some advice?
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    Apr 11, 2013, 10:30 PM
    Advice? Depending on where you are, he should be in jail. Pictures? You send nude pictures to this guy? Do you have sex with him too? If so, he's a pig. He IS just using you and you may think you love him but you don't. I know I'm wasting my time telling you and I know you are going to say I am wrong. Ask your parents what they think of this situation... ask them for some advice... make sure you include the details when you talk to them.
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    Apr 12, 2013, 03:18 AM
    Advice, start listening to everyone, since they are right, he is using you for sex, and do not know what type of pics but if they are naked, expect all his friends to have them also
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    Apr 12, 2013, 06:25 AM
    He is using you. There really is no other reason a 37 year old man would be interested in a 16 year old girl. Leave this man alone before he has you doing other things (if you're not doing them already)
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    Apr 12, 2013, 07:04 AM
    You are 16. He is 37. This pervert is old enough to be your father and that's just sick!

    I really hope you are a troll and just trying to get a rise out of us. If not, this freak should be locked up and never see the light of day.
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    Apr 12, 2013, 11:51 AM
    The bright side is that maybe he can do her homework so "we" don't have to - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/histor...-743869-3.html
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